Can I bring a girlfriend?

Hi Sarah and welcome to WW.

It's very nice of you to allow +1, but that's really it - plus 1, not plus any number people like. So if one of your sisters wants to bring a friend instead of a boyfriend... that's her call. Tell them the space is limited and you're paying per guest.

Don't let them pay for additional guests. You're getting married and want to do so surrounded by people you care about. You're not running a business, and no, it's not about being a bridezilla.

Finally, could you please change your avatar under your profile to anything other than salt and pepper shaker? It helps us recognize people.

Happy planning!

Plus 1 means plus 1. doesnt matter who they bring as long as it is only 1! i would tell them that there is a pp limit and unless they can get someone else on the list to give up their plus one they only get one! one means one!

ps..its YOUR wedding.. they either had their chance or will have..

I would tell them they are each allowed to bring ONE guest. If they rather bring their friend instead of boyfriend that is their choice. I wouldn't let your sister pay for the extra guest. I would explain weddings are a more formal event and they can't just bring a bunch of friends to tag along like they would at a more casual party.

Hi Sarah!

We are allowing every guest to bring a plus one as well. I think the fact that you have allowed that is enough. You just have to tell her no. You only want x amount of people at your wedding and people aren't allowed a plus two.

I agree with Mrs S. Don't allow her to pay. She may be initally upset but you'll avoid more drama later on when your other sisters want to bring additional guests.

I agree with the ladies above. Plus 1 means plus 1. My brother asked if I would invite his friend, which I declined. I like his friend, but there's no need for me to pay for him. He can have him at his own wedding (whenever that may be).

But the point is, they can't just invite whomever they want. You and your FH didn't invite their posse for a reason.

I agree with al the ladies above. Your sisters should choose if they want to make it a "girls night" or a "date night". Remind them that you are being very gracious by allowing them a guest each.

Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! Your thoughts are greatly appreciated....and super helpful. Congrats to you all!