Bridesmaid getting married 1 week after me...

Awh. Sad you won't won't be able to go. Suprised she made it so soon after yours!

Just a little

I can see that as a bridesmaid, y'all are obviously very close and are upset that you'll miss her big day. Maybe you could take her out to dinner before your wedding and congratulate her before you leave on your honeymoon.

ETA: @ Sommer I'm really hoping you just meant that you're super stressed out with your wedding coming up soon and can't handle dealing with anything else until you get through this month.

What @Ms.MRose said. Yea it's a slight bummer but you still should show your support.

@sommer - ew, you suck as a person. karma is a bitch.

I think it's frustrating if she knew you'd be on your honeymoon and couldn't attend but other than that her planning a week after you is absolutely fine and should not offend you at all. It's not like your wedding is next week and she just got engaged and planned it, she is planning a perfectly reasonable amount of time and you should be excited for/supporting her.

God forbid ANYONE you know decide to get married until you deem it ok. I don't understand people. As long as they are still coming to your day what do you care?!?! It's not like they took your day !