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Savvy September 2016

Bridesmaid Cost - how much can I ask them to spend?

momo, on March 27, 2016 at 5:23 PM

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My bridesmaids are having a tough time, budget-wise, and I'm not sure how much I can ask or expect them to pay. My MOH is the only one who lives in a different city, so she is the only one who has travel

My bridesmaids are having a tough time, budget-wise, and I'm not sure how much I can ask or expect them to pay. My MOH is the only one who lives in a different city, so she is the only one who has travel

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  • Kari
    Master October 2016
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    @Rachel, the practice of the BM's buying their dress has been the norm since before you were born.

    If it's a 'burden' to them they can always decline being a bridesmaid.

    You may claim to be in the US but you don't seem to know the wedding customs here very well.

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  • Kristen
    VIP May 2016
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    I'm doing what @christa suggested. I told my girls to wear short black dresses and black shoes. I figured that gives them the choice to wear something they already own, or to purchase something at whatever price point they're comfortable with. We're having a DW, so I wanted to limit their expenses as much as possible since they're already paying for travel.

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  • M
    Master July 2015
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    I semi-agree with Rachel.

    Only in that I think it should not be the custom of bridesmaids to pay for their own dresses, even though it definitely IS the custom.

    I bought all my girls dresses, hair, jewelry, and makeup. Granted, I also asked them ALL to travel to a not cheap destination.

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  • Courtney
    VIP June 2016
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    Ask them. I did my best to find the cheapest dress at DB for them ($80) and anything else is their choice what they want to wear (boots, jewelry, hair, etc)

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