Because she attended mine.
One of my friends is getting married in a couple months. Most of my weekends are spent working. She is having a destination bachelorette party and I RSVPd no to the general evite. I got a text from her saying she was disappointed I didn't feel the need to let her know personally and give a reason why especially since she attended all of my events. I told her I didn't think it was a big deal and thought responding to the main evite was enough.
She has a bridal shower coming up. It's over 3 hours away from me and is a 3 hour event. It's on a Saturday which means I'll be working. After her last response, I feel pressure to attend which means trying to get off of work and being on the road longer than at the actual event. What should I do? TIA
Other useful info: I am planning on attending the wedding and have sent my RSVP for that. When she says "especially since she attended my events"--all of my events took my out of town guests into consideration and were planned for a couple days before the wedding to make it easier for them to attend. I feel like she may be asking too much, but is my perspective out of whack?
