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Just Said Yes October 2019

Bride and Groom hosting wedding, no wedding party, who toasts if at all?

Kate, on October 6, 2018 at 2:23 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7

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If we are paying for the small wedding ourselves and decided not to have a wedding party, no Bestman or MOH, who makes a toast? Do we just stand up during dinner and thank our guests for being there for our special day? Forgo the toast? I am not sure if its necessary since its a small wedding less than 40 adults and no bridal party and our parents are not helping us at all.

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Latest activity by Swtnss238, on October 6, 2018 at 11:41 PM

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Kenisha · on October 6, 2018 at 3:01 PM
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It’s up to you.

You can either do the toasts 🥂 yourself.

OR

no toasts at all.
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Super January 2019
Tracy · on October 6, 2018 at 5:40 PM
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We are paying for our own wedding, but I am still having my father give a welcome toast and grace.
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Dedicated August 2018
Amanda · on October 6, 2018 at 7:00 PM
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We had a small wedding as well and we had my dad give the toast
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Ashley · on October 6, 2018 at 8:05 PM
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We're paying as well, and not having any toasts or speeches. We have bridesmaids and groomsmen but no best man or maid of honor- we just don't want to listen to people talk lol
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Anna · on October 6, 2018 at 9:24 PM
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Totally your call. I plan to ask my father and the best man to make a toast if they want to and are comfortable. But if any of your parents are around then they may want to make a toast.
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Rachel · on October 6, 2018 at 11:19 PM
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Your parents can still toast you or your closest friends, definitely make sure to stand up and thank everyone for coming yourself tho
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Swtnss238 · on October 6, 2018 at 11:41 PM
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We dont have a wedding party and our guests list is 25. FH is going to make a toast and my BFF is going to make one. Shes pretty much my MOH without actually walking down the aisle and standing with me.
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