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Shaylyn
Savvy October 2020

Bridal Suite Access

Shaylyn, on June 16, 2019 at 10:52 PM Posted in Planning 0 8
I’ll preface this post by saying i’m a little frustrated with my venue right now... My fiancé and I toured the space in April and were shown the bridal suite and the groom suite where we were told the bridal party could get ready. We booked the venue in May.

I told all all of my vendors (photographer, film maker, hair/makeup) that we’d be getting ready at the venue in the bridal/groom suite we were shown during the tour. Come to find out we are only allowed to start getting ready at the venue 3 hours prior to the start of our ceremony time. Who can get ready in 3 hours?? Not to mention we’re doing a first look and photos prior to the ceremony so we won’t even be able to use the space and will have to find somewhere else to get ready.

My fiancé and I are 100% certain the venue did not mention that we were only permitted to begin getting ready there 3 hours prior to the start of the ceremony during the tour. They are saying we can pay an additional $100/hour to have someone come let us in so we can start getting ready at the venue earlier, which is absurd. I’d appreciate any advice on how to handle this situation. Thanks!

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Latest activity by MrsD, on June 17, 2019 at 12:13 PM
  • C
    Super December 2021
    Casey ·
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    While it's possible they never mentioned it, it is likely in your contract. Check the contract and if it isn't stated I'd fight it. If it is.. Well, it's common to get ready in a hotel first and would likely be cheaper than extra hours at your hotel. Then you can change and get first look (& maybe more) photos done in those 3 hours at your venue.
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  • Shaylyn
    Savvy October 2020
    Shaylyn ·
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    Hi Casey! It’s not mentioned in our contract.
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  • C
    Super December 2021
    Casey ·
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    Hi Shaylyn! Smiley smile I'd argue that if additional time was going to cost, it should have been written into the contract. It was not stated verbally nor is it in your written agreement. Generally with enough fight- they give in. You're likely spending thousands to be there- they should budge. Just state that this was not what you were told nor is it in your paperwork and you are very unhappy. Fingers crossed for you!
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  • Shaureeka
    Devoted June 2019
    Shaureeka ·
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    I definitely get the frustration and this is not a situation where you want to rush and get ready. Maybe they can work a deal out with you and aave money else where to get extra time. I know it doesn't sound to good but hopefully so or a hotel near by. Good luck and i hope it all works out
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  • Heather
    Expert October 2019
    Heather ·
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    Generally that’s a question you should have asked when you toured the venue. We toured 5 venues before booking our venue. Each one we asked when we were allowed access to the venue. And each one states in the contract and on their website the cost for additional time. The venue we went with will only allow us access an hour prior to the start of our ceremony/reception. However if it was never discussed and it’s not in your contract, definitely argue that with them. At the very leave, maybe they can discount the extra time for you, if not give it to you for free.
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  • Arielle
    Expert August 2020
    Arielle ·
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    I think this is something the person giving you a tour should have mentioned. We went on 4 tours and every person who walked us through asked us where we would want to get ready, or let us know off the bat if they had a bridal suite. One place didn't and we did not book it for that reason. The time for us to access our bridal suite is on the first page of our contract. I would bring the contract in and ask for it to be looked at so that you can discuss your time in the bridal suite. We are getting ready at the hotel (hair and make up) and I'll be putting my dress on at the venue. Good luck!

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  • W
    Savvy December 2015
    Woman On The Go ·
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    It's definitely an odd omission on both parts. The contract should have exact start and end times for your event so you have in writing what the venue's obligation is in terms of access, staffing, etc. But didn't you discuss doing your first look photos there, when the vendors would be able to arrive, and what time you'd like to be there? You should definitely go back to them and re-negotiate and get a new (and clearer) contract. I don't think $100/hr is a lot in the grand scheme of costs, but I guess I don't know how early you want to gain access either.
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  • MrsD
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    MrsD ·
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    Our venue lets us have access for 12 hours, so letting us into the bridal suite at 3 for our 5 PM ceremony. We paid $500 extra to get in at 10 AM, we needed more time. I assume the initial contract mentioned this?

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