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Devoted November 2015

bridal shower day of time line? who eats first, games, presents...

WoW, on April 7, 2016 at 11:24 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8

A few questions regarding hosting a bridal shower. I'm MOH for sister in law and her bridesmaids and I hosted (her mom and FMIL, also gave some money) The bridal party will sit at one table with bride. I know the bride is to eat first, but then who after that? Does she eat alone and BM eat last?

We're doing a few games so I figured time line would be: games, lunch, presents, cupcakes passed out while she's opening presents.

Any suggestions would be appreciated.

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Latest activity by Lynnie, on April 7, 2016 at 11:47 AM
  • Jessi
    VIP October 2015
    Jessi ·
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    Normally everyone eats at the same time.

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  • ELK
    Master March 2018
    ELK ·
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    At my sister's baby shower everyone ate at the same time (except me because I was running around like a lunatic..my own fault) and then she opened her gifts/we played games. Then we had cake.

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  • Mrs. Nicole
    Master May 2016
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    My shower is Sunday.

    Mingle, eat, games, gifts, cake, bye bye. Pretty simple.

    And as far as who eats first..nobody? Perhaps the bride/BP gets served first but everyone should be eating at the same time. It's weird otherwise.

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  • Nicole
    Master July 2015
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    Well if I remember correctly I got my food first but everyone ate at the same time. It's good you have a seating plan for the bride because it was kinda awkward that I had to choose where to sit as the guest of honor and felt like I had to choose over people. Also, depending in the time of the party you may want to do lunch first. If people are hungry they might be grouchy for games

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  • Mrs. Knolle
    Master July 2016
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    Why wouldn't everyone eat at the same time? I would definitely serve the bride first.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    I would definitely have everyone eat at the same time. For mingling/games/gifts you can be really flexible, and keep the shower more casual. I normally see the same timeline that @Mrs. Nicole posted!

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  • WoW
    Devoted November 2015
    WoW ·
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    I wanted to double check because a co-workers said the BM should eat (get served) last since we are hosting. Yes everyone eats at the same time, but bridal party will go last. But I was thinking we should stuff our faces first to move on to what's next, lol...So just wanted to see what the main consensus was in the wedding world. The bridal shower is at 11am.

    Thanks again

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    That makes sense! I'd agree on serving the bride first and hosts last, but I'm not sure I've even noticed this at bridal showers Smiley smile

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