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Jennifer
Beginner September 2018

Bridal Shower a year before the wedding??

Jennifer, on April 3, 2017 at 12:23 PM Posted in Planning 0 30

Hello,

My wedding is next year 9/8/18 and my mother's good friend really wants to give me a bridal shower all expenses paid. But she wants to do it this year because she is so excited.

Is October 2017 too soon?

30 Comments

Latest activity by Taylor, on May 24, 2017 at 10:58 AM
  • AwkwardToBe
    VIP September 2017
    AwkwardToBe ·
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    I think it's a little soon. Usually they're within 4 months of the wedding.

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  • ReneeEdward
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    Too soon

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  • Miranda
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    It seems too soon to me

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  • Private_User832
    Master August 2017
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    Too soon. I've seen 6 months before and I think there is wiggle room but a year out is too soon in my opinion

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  • Kelsey
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    I agree with everyone else in that it's too soon. Not to say it will happen, but anything can happen during your engagement that may result in having to push back your date further, cancel the wedding all together, etc. Would be awful to throw a party and have people give you gifts for it to be all for naught.

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  • fallinthegarden
    Master October 2017
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    That's super-early. Mine is 4 months out because that was when worked best for the hosts and I, and even that is considered pretty early.

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  • Miranda
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    Mine was 2 months before

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  • B&T2Be
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    Try just hanging out together or hold an engagement party this year instead.

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  • laura
    Expert June 2017
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    I went to one 8 months in advance and although I thought it was early, it was still nice and I didn't think anything badly about it!

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  • CountingDowntoMrs
    VIP October 2017
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    Way too soon. You don't need to invite people to your shower who are not invited to the wedding, and it is way too early to make your wedding guest list.

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  • Mandypants
    Super May 2017
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    Yeah...too soon. Your tastes or needs in registry items might change. And if you want to go old school etiquette, you shouldn't use any of the gifts until after you're married (because if Lord forbid you don't, you're supposed to send them back). And who wants all those boxes sitting around for a year?

    Not me. And everyone you invite to the shower has to be invited to your wedding, so that could get sticky because a lot can change in a year.

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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
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    Yes that's way too soon. I would say do it no sooner than 3-4 months before.

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  • A. L.
    Master July 2017
    A. L. ·
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    Yes, do it in summer 2018

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  • Bee
    Master April 2017
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    I wouldn't have it any earlier than 6 months. Even that's pushing it.

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  • vghjfcxgxfgdh
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    You honestly want to have it closer to the wedding (say 3-4 months out) . Not only because its closer to the wedding, and because registry preferences could change, but because it will make you that much more excited for the wedding .

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  • vghjfcxgxfgdh
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    vghjfcxgxfgdh ·
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    You honestly want to have it closer to the wedding (say 3-4 months out) . Not only because its closer to the wedding, and because registry preferences could change, but because it will make you that much more excited for the wedding .

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  • Laura
    Master July 2017
    Laura ·
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    Way too soon. Mine is 2 months before. My cousin's is 4 1/2 months before her wedding and that even seems too early to me.

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  • CuteNickname
    Super July 2017
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    Yes, way too soon.

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  • NautiBride2018
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    Too soon. Things come and go, and most people do theirs anywhere from a month to as late as I've seen 4 months. A whole year is way too early. And if you aren't living on your own, where would you put all of that stuff anyway?

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  • JDSquared
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    No way. Too soon.

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