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Bouquet Toss - Do or Ditch?

Lynnie, on February 4, 2020 at 11:05 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 93
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Will you keep up the tradition of tossing your wedding bouquet to the single ladies at your wedding? It's time to weigh in on if you'll be tossing the bouquet, or tossing that tradition out the window!

Are you doing or ditching the bouquet toss? 💐


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93 Comments

Latest activity by Emilia, on July 13, 2021 at 1:00 PM
  • Erin
    VIP December 2020
    Erin ·
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    I’m only going to have 2 single women at my wedding, so we probably won’t do this.
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    As a single twenty-something, I was never a fan of being called out and having used flowers thrown at me, so we skipped.

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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Doing. I have a ton of single friends
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  • Shelby
    Expert November 2020
    Shelby ·
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    I only have a few “single” girls who will be attending but I still think it will be fun to do so I am throwing a bouquet, but not mine! I have fake flowers that I making a bouquet for it so that whoever catches it can keep it 😊
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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
    Sherry ·
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    Hard pass. Not a fan of singling anyone out and making them feel uncomfortable. We also only had maybe 3 single girls so it was at the top of our ditch list.

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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    Ditch. I have only a few single friends that will be attendance.

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  • Annajoy
    Expert August 2020
    Annajoy ·
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    If I do this, I'll probably do it with all of the single people at the wedding, not just the women. I likely won't though because we'll have wooden bouquets and I want to keep mine.

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    We ditched this.

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  • Julie
    VIP February 2020
    Julie ·
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    Definitely ditching this
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  • Vannesa
    Expert June 2022
    Vannesa ·
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    Do! I love this idea.

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  • Ashley
    Devoted July 2021
    Ashley ·
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    I honestly don't think we have any single women invited, and even if we did, I wasn't planning on doing a bouquet toss anyway.

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  • K
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    K ·
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    Ditch. I've always hated this.

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  • Jai
    Rockstar May 2020
    Jai ·
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    Def doing this!
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  • Fenja
    VIP August 2021
    Fenja ·
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    I like it, but at the same time we will not have a lot of single girls at the wedding so it might make them feel uncomfortable... So propably not.

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  • Sweet'N'Rhodes
    Devoted March 2022
    Sweet'N'Rhodes ·
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    Ditching. I'm not into the concept anyway, and don't know any single women.

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  • Ashley
    Super October 2020
    Ashley ·
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    Ditching most of the women there are married or in long term relationships

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  • Marlena
    Expert June 2020
    Marlena ·
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    Ditching. Most of our guests are already married or in a relationship so it seemed kind of pointless.

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  • Blaine
    Beginner December 2020
    Blaine ·
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    I agree! Every wedding I’ve been to, even though some I had a boyfriend and some didn’t, I’ve never stood up and tried to catch the bouquet. I just find it awkward and no one needs to know my marital status
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  • Jennifer
    VIP August 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    We're doing it! My mom made a bouquet special for it. I'm also having the TLC song "No Scrubs" play, it'll be a fun moment!

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  • Meghan
    Savvy June 2022
    Meghan ·
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    I'm with Caytlyn; I was never a fan of being called out for being single, and really I'll only have a handful of ladies. I'll ask them before I make this decision to see how they'd feel about it.

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