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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Big or Small?

Lynnie, on June 4, 2019 at 11:43 AM

Posted in Planning 198

The first major question!! Are you having a big or small wedding? What's your wedding style? Big? Photo from Galt House Hotel in Louisville, KY Or Small? Photo by Lindsey Roman Photography Next Question: Black Tie or Cocktail Attire? Back to the Beginning: Style Showdown

The first major question!! Are you having a big or small wedding? What's your wedding style?


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Photo from Galt House Hotel in Louisville, KY

Or Small?cfb_1212145.jpg

Photo by Lindsey Roman Photography



Next Question: Black Tie or Cocktail Attire?

Back to the Beginning: Style Showdown

198 Comments

  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea ·
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    Somewhat big, I suppose.

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  • B
    Beginner November 2019
    beverly ·
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    BIG. We have 4 bridesmaids, 4 groomsmen, matron of Honor, Best man, 1 flower girl, 1 ring bearer, 1 hostess, and 1 usher and approximately 130 guests

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  • Just Us Two
    Dedicated May 2021
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    I wanted a small wedding, no wedding party, just me and my FH. My FH is having a conniption for a huge, let's show our ass, blow out. 6 bridesmaids, 6 groomsmen approximately 300 guest. 🤦🏾‍♀️
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  • ALYSSA
    Devoted September 2019
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    Medium 100-120

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  • A
    Savvy October 2020
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    Big 150 guests small bridal party 4 bm and gm each

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  • Rachel
    Devoted October 2019
    Rachel ·
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    I would say ours is more about medium. We're expecting about 90 people at the wedding and our bridal party is 2 on my side, 2 on his side and our FG and RB.

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  • Chelsie
    Devoted May 2020
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    Big, 5 bridal party members, 6 groomsmen, 4 flower girls, 2 ring bearers and 133 guest.

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  • J
    Beginner September 2019
    Jasmine ·
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    Small, with only 60 guests tops. Only 1 MOH and 1 BM. No bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girl or ring bearer.

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  • Harmony
    Dedicated June 2021
    Harmony ·
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    Medium-ish? I am thinking about 100 guests. I want a small bridal party for sure though, only thinking of two people for my bridal party.


    I want it to be a special moment for me and my man and not worried about anything other than celebrating our love.


    More people = more distraction/stress in my mind.

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  • M
    Savvy October 2019
    Marah ·
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    Small! Roughly 40 guests total.
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  • Paulette
    Expert April 2021
    Paulette ·
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    The bridal party is small. The wedding is big.

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  • Terran
    Dedicated December 2020
    Terran ·
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    I'd say in the middle. Not SMALL but not BIG so far at 80 people which I think is below average for most weddings that I've been to.

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  • Jessica
    Expert February 2020
    Jessica ·
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    Small. We have 70 people on the guest list.

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  • Ashley
    Super November 2020
    Ashley ·
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    Small for us. 4 bridesmaids, 4 groomsmen, 1 ring bearer, 1 flower dog and a total of 80 guests.

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  • Sweet'N'Rhodes
    Devoted March 2022
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    Small, small, small. I'd feel far too anxious with lots of people, but fortunately neither of us have many people to invite anyway.


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  • Anna
    VIP October 2020
    Anna ·
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    In looking at others I’m not sure. The wedding party is small, but we’re inviting around 130 people which seems larger than what I’m seeing a lot on here post that they’re having but then it’s a good bit smaller than several I’ve been to lately.

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  • Mrs.a
    Master October 2021
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    Small / intimate (25-30 guests)
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  • Squeezy Bean
    Devoted June 2023
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    Small all the way. That was never a concern for us.
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