Hello lovelies, I know it's been a LONG while since I've posted in here. This was my favorite place to come for wedding advice and I figured I needed it now.
My college best guy friend and his fiancé are getting married next month. They've had this date set for close to a year, save the dates went out, invites have been out.. I have already RSVP'd to their wedding as it's 1.5 months away.. (I can still take it back if needed..). My husband and I get along very well with him and his fiancé both, we hangout occasionally and anytime we're in each others towns we give a shout to see if their busy. (They live 2.5 hours from us)
My step brother... who I didn't live with growing up but we are fairly close for not. He's 4 years younger than me and just this last July started dating one of my college friends. Her and I are still friends, though not as close as we used to be, but life has gotten in the way of seeing each other often. They "got engaged" without a ring (which is fine) then got one and now they're officially engaged.. as of like a week ago. She now has a wedding planned for the same day as my friends, but doesn't even have a venue yet... (eye roll). She didn't ask any family what days were convenient or anything like that.. My bestfriends wedding is literally the only wedding I've planned to go to for over a year. My stepbro and friend, will be having DIY catering, including the cake.. they haven't sent out invites yet because of course they don't have a venue with 1.5 months to go, and it will be very small. While my bestfriend from college, ya know they've got everything to the 10's and a huge guest list.
I am seriously torn and don't know what to do. There is no possible way to make both. They are 3 hours apart (the towns), and one starts at 4, while the other starts at 5:30.. I just found out this morning via facebook about the date of Stepbro and friends wedding.. I text her and asked if it was set in stone because I had another wedding that day and she says yes... but they don't have a venue so idk. HELP! lol