Best man wants me to chip in for groomsman’s hotel???

Ok this is super ridiculous and there is a context to it but it’s CRAZY. Surprise bachelor party was supposed to be tonight and tomorrow. Best man and 1 groomsman were flying in from across the country. Best man’s flight was delayed 3 hours, groomsman’s flight was cancelled and rescheduled. His options were to take a flight that would land at 12am in New Jersey or 6pm in New York City. We all said 12AM IN NEW JERSEY, WE WILL PICK YOU UP THEN (if you don’t live in this area you don’t understand how basically impossible it is to drive to La Guardia.....) anyway he didn’t listen and booked the flight to New York City. So now he’s saying he just wants to stay in New York City for the night because he doesn’t want to bother coming to New Jersey so late. So best man asked in the group chat (group chat is groomsmen and me, because we were helping coordinate the surprise) if we would all chip in for groomsman’s hotel. He then texted me separately saying that I don’t HAVE to chip in, but it would be nice.

Obviously this is completely ridiculous, I have no idea why anyone should pay for his hotel other than him??? Especially not me, I’m not a groomsman, I’m just helping to coordinate the surprise for FH........ and by the way, I actually already DID book them all a hotel room in New Jersey using my own Marriott points. So I actually have ALREADY contributed to a hotel room for the rest of them. No idea why it makes sense to ask ME, the bride, to contribute to a SECOND hotel room for the freaking BACHELOR party. (groomsman also makes 6 figures so money is NOT an issue for him, which it is for me, but that’s besides the point...)

Anyway, it’s been such a rough day dealing with all this and work that my brain is so fried and I cant even figure out how to articulating nicely saying “no I’m not chipping in for the hotel room” please help me with words 😭