Best friend/ moh did a leisure photoshoot in my wedding dress

The situation does not sound like a continuing problem and the boutique seems to have pulled that picture off of Instagram. So, any problems that maybe would have been anticipated seemed to have been handled in a timely fashion. I think anyone who even has seen the picture would remember the dress or take anything away from the specialness of the dress for your wedding day.

Also, the people involved likely got caught up in the moment and made on-the-spot decisions what attire to reflect in the photos or videos. I'm not sure how any further correction could be made. Hopefully this will be something that smooths over mildly. Best wishes for you.

I can understand why this would bother you - it’s your wedding dress and it’s meant to be a special, personal moment. Even if it truly was an accident, it’s still reasonable to feel uncomfortable seeing someone else photographed and posted publicly in your dress before your wedding. That said, since the boutique agreed to remove the video and your MOH didn’t do it intentionally, I’d probably treat this as a boundary-setting moment rather than something to escalate. Let your MOH know how it made you feel so it doesn’t happen again, but if she’s been supportive otherwise, this doesn’t sound worth damaging the friendship over.