My fiance and I are planning a beach wedding in florida with just immidiate family and we're planning on doing a reception kind of party at home, in illinois, about 2-3 weeks later. We want it to be relaxed and not really like your typical reception (no wedding dress, bouquet toss, daddy/daughter, mother/son dances etc) we want dancing, drinking, food and good times. We dont want to shell out an arm and a leg for a party so the standard wedding banquet halls are out, and we don't want to do it at either of our parents houses because our mothers would spend the whole year cleaning....so I need place ideas, and any other cool fun things to do at the reception, any decoration ideas (should we even do decorations??) Should it be more of an open house or set times? I've never planning a regular wedding and there's even less online advice for the non-traditional weddings so any advice would be greatly appreciated! Annnnnd Go!