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Melissa Sherman
Beginner December 2007

Bachelorette Party... when's the best time to have it?

Melissa Sherman, on February 12, 2007 at 12:13 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7

I just moved away from my friends, so flying in the weekend before my wedding would be too stressful. Is it ok to have a bachelorette party months before the wedding?

7 Comments

Latest activity by Kara, on April 9, 2016 at 9:12 PM
  • Yujin
    Beginner May 2006
    Yujin ·
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    I think so! It's a good idea to have it at least a month before. For my bachelorette/brial event, we went to a spa for facials and I ended up breaking out afterwards...it took at least 2 weeks to clear up so you never know what's going to happen and it'll be good to have time to detox/clear up and be back to your "normal" self. =)

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  • Laura
    Dedicated June 2006
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    Yes, you can absolutely have it months before! It will also space out events for your 'maids, so they aren't in 'weddingland' for a solid month. Have fun!

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  • Vicky Choy
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    Absolutely! These days, there are few rules about when to have the bachlorette party. People tend to have the party more based on a date that works best for everyone since people are so spread out throughout the country these days. I think it also depends on what you are planning on doing. My roommate from college had hers 2 months before the wedding. We met up in NYC for a Broadway show and dinner. Another girlfriend had hers the Thursday night before the wedding since hers was a destination wedding and none of the females guests could get together until then. We just went out for drink and had a girls night out.

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  • Julie
    Beginner September 2006
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    Having the party the weekend or even couple weekends before is WAY too stressful. You are going to be very busy doing other things besides drinking out of male anatomy straws! I would suggest the best time would be months before. I had mine 3 months before and had a beach weekend with my girlfriends. The best time and everyone was relaxed and looking forward to the upcoming wedding!

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  • Justine
    Just Said Yes October 2006
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    Mine was about a month before the wedding, mainly because that was the only time my girls and I could get together. However, it was a great stress reliever when I needed stress relief the most, and it was fabulous for all of us to get together shortly before the wedding.

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  • Caitlinpassionparties
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  • K
    Just Said Yes February 2017
    Kara ·
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    My wedding is feb 14th 2017 when's a good day to have a bachalor party ??

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