Bachelor/Bachelorette parties....How many almost ended it?

Stripper house calls gross me out. Why would anyone want that??? Seems skeevy from the get-go.

Strip clubs? Meh. I respect others' feelings for sure, but IMO it's like going to a really weird zoo. No lapdances though. I don't care if H puts a dollar in some broad's cleavage with his teeth, b/c knowing him it probably makes him more uncomfortable than horny. This does not come up often so it's a non-issue, but if I had to draw a line, dry-humping strangers would definitely cross it. I'm sure he would feel the same way.

Honestly the only time H or I really get uncomfortable is when the other ends up in a wingman situation for a single friend. Inevitably you end up chatting up the person's friend, and that's just a little too close to sending mixed signals to a stranger at a bar, and that's no good.

H went to Coachella for his b-party. I stayed off the blogs until he got home b/c they are full of this. Faux hippie hoores! lol.

I'm not worried at all about our parties. I know my FH's groomsmen and BM will probably want to get him boozed up, but they aren't really into the club scene. I don't even mind strippers, as long as he is not getting personal lab dances and there is a hands-off policy, i'm good with it. We watch a lot worse on TV and I know he is still coming home to me, wanting me (he has never actually been to a strip club before - I have been to several.)

I agree that cheating is a definite deal breaker. I don't know how I could feel good about marrying someone who betrayed my trust.

DH did the typical strip club thing (fine by me) and told me, "I was bummed they didn't get me a lap-dance." I sympathized. *Then* the BM tells me, much later, "Yeah, we wanted to get him a lap dance, but he said he didn't feel comfortable with that." I have no idea how this miscommunication happened, but it still makes me laugh (14 years later)!

Not likely to do the stripper thing (though he and I plan to go to a strip club together with a bunch of friends before the wedding) but we are planning to have parties. The weekend before the wedding we are going paintballing as a big group (his guys and my girls/guys) then the losing team buys dinner for everyone. After that we're going to split ways and go to different clubs or a show or something (to be decided still), spend the night in hotel rooms, then meet up again for a late breakfast the next day.

I wanted to hire a stripper for my FH Bachelor party. But his friends wife's are(in his words), prudes. They won't allow their husbands to do anything beyond G rated. My fiancé and I's relationship is very open. We trust each other. If someone is going to cheat, they will do it regardless. So if we decide to have racy bachelor/bachelorette parties, we will have to lie about it to his friends wife's. Which I'm not sure is the right way to start a friendship with them. We also thought about joint bachelor/bachelorette scavenger hunt.

Me n my girls are going to New Orleans, but everyone is in relationsships so i dont see anything wacking or tempting happening. My FH is going to Buffalo to a Bills game and they are getting a party bus for the night. I'm not afraid because its not in his nature to do such a thing, if I was worried I wouldnt be marrying him.

I'm more worried about him getting wasted and breaking something rather than doing something to break us up lol

It's about trust and being secure in your relationship. I have no problems with my FH going to a strip club... I actually told the GM to make it the nastiest one they could find. Why.. Bc I know he is loyal and I am comfortable with my self and our relationship to trust him... And guess what ladies the dancers don't want your man... They want his money... So my only rule is he is only allowed 20... The GM are gonna waste their money not ours...and the FH told my MOH No Felonies...it's funny bc he is a police officer... Be confident in your self and your relationship