Asking my Friends to be bridesmaids

Congrats!!
Yes, definitely ask the people you can't imagine not standing up there with you to be a part of your bridal party
A lot of people also do these like bridesmaids proposal boxes.

You dont know what their answer will be until you ask. But I wouldnt do it until you're much closer (8-10) months out because relationships could change.

Be sure to choose friends and family who are going to take this role seriously. I asked my sisters to be mine and had to fire them 5 months later because they really didn’t show much interest and didn’t order their dress when I asked them to. After numerous reminders I thought it wasn’t worth the headache. It was one less thing I had to worry about.

I don't like the concept if proposal boxes because it kinda forces people to say yes, even when they don't want to or can't afford to. Just outright ask them. Is there a reason you think they will say no?

View Quoted Comment Just that since graduating we are all far from each other.

View Quoted Comment That shouldn't matter. I asked my girls and they said yes. I havent loved around them for almost 10 years. One is in Missouri and one is in Maryland. I was in South Carolina. They each bought dresses where they lived and it turned out perfect.

Congratulations!

I would definitely take the time to enjoy being engaged before jumping into picking bridesmaids. We were engaged over 2 months before I asked my girls.

I chose those who have stood by me in difficult situations and know that I can trust. My MOH has been my best friend for over 15 years and I love hear dearly. My other bridesmaids are friends that I've known since high school, college, and in other facets in life.

I agree with others to wait until closer to. Not only because relationships change but also because we see a lot of regret over this in these forums! People get frustrated, expect too much, etc.
Take some time to enjoy your engagement (congrats btw!) Then, Chandra suggested, a little closer to ask.

View Quoted Comment Thanks so much ladies ❤️