Are you inviting your future mother in law to get ready with you on your wedding day?

My dynamic is a little different because FH's side has better things to do than spend the morning in the bridal suite. I did ask FMIL if she wanted to be added to the hairdresser reservation and she said thanks but declined. She'd rather do her own hair.

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My FMIL was widowed last year and had a stroke a few months ago and FH is her only child. I invited her to get dressed with us and for hair and makeup but I am scheduling her towards the end as she's in a wheelchair and tires easily and I don't want her to be super tired for the ceremony or reception if she comes super early.

My fmil will be. All guys together and all girls together. So fmil with me and my dad with fh and ffil. We are planning on doing a first look with my self and my father and fh with fmil.

Thanks, everyone! I honestly wasn't expecting so many responses!

I spoke to my own mother about it and she didn't want my FMIL in the room for a multitude of reasons. So, I told my FH that we can help her contact the resort and arrange for a stylist for her and the rest of her family. I hope it doesn't ruffle too many feathers!

I won't be. I haven't spoke to fmil in almost a year. I know it's still 13 months away, but she is drama through and through and I don't need that at our wedding.

I don't even want my mom there due to stress. No way I would have my MIL.

I'm not cause I want her to be stress free and she will want to be focused on FH and her family.

I will be asking FMIL and FSIL and if they want too they are more than welcome to join us....

My FMIL asked if she could join us at the salon. I had reservations because her and I have a very strained relationship. She does only have 1 child though and this is her only opportunity to be involved with something like this so I agreed. My sisters will be there to run interference if she starts doing all diva though

Ugh I didn't even think about this. I probably won't because I just want to be with my mom and sisters.

Yep, mine will be getting ready with us. We're all getting ready at her house.

I'm probably going to have her and my moms make up done along with my BM (one of which is also FSIL) so yeah she'll be invited. Considering her daughter will be with me she'll probably do it. And her granddaughter is my flower girl lol

I will be extending an invite to FMIL, but my situation is a bit different in that there's no stepmom to worry about offending, and FH isn't requesting to have mom AND sister AND cousin included.

If you don't want them there, I'd simply tell FH you were looking forward to this as mother/daughter down time before the wedding.

Yep! I got ready wth FMIL. My mom wasn't even with us. But we're close. I wouldn't be getting ready with people I didn't want around me.

I had invited my FMIL and FSIL and they both were complaining that it was too expensive (only $150!!) and then they went on to talk crap about the price and told my fiancé SIL (brothers wife) that it was $300 (what!! idk where she got that from)

On Tuesday his SIL texted me saying that it was completely out of their budget and she could not afford it (she wasn't even Included LOL).... Now, I'm just getting ready with my BM and mom. It's probably better that way. I'd say just make it your mom and you. It will be quiet and special. Best of luck!

I invited my FMIL to come get her makeup done I actually told the makeup artist she should be the first one so that she can go help FH with whatever he may need I know she doesn't want to miss any of that. We live 5 minutes from eachother so I don't think it will be an issue

I am same as Jenn v! It's me, my mom, 5 BMs and FMIL! My parents live far away and FH and I live in small apartment so she offered her house so girls to have more room!

I'm inviting my bridal party, my mom and my fmil

I'm not planning on it. We get along fine but we just aren't very close & she isn't very social so I think it would be awkward.

No lol. Just my girls. I don't even know if my mom will be there? I guess I haven't thought about it....