Are any of you afraid to get pregnant before the wedding?

Lol. I'd only be upset cause I'd worry about the financial aspect of it. Being only 19 I don't drink and don't plan on it. I love babies but I know now is not the time. I plan on having kids in the future but if it happens it happens. (hopimg it doesn't lol)

I think I would be sad at first. lol

I think i would be a little sad too. i would want to experience both of course, but at seperate times. and plus i wouldnt want our guests to think my fiancee and i were only getting married because i was pregnant. and also the minister thats doing our wedding will not marry any couple that is pregnant, she thinks theyre only doing it because of that reason. i had a friend get turned down because of it. so unfair and messed up.

I am not worried at all. Mainly because we have not had sex yet (per his request) and are waiting until our wedding night. Its nice though because I don't have to worry at all. The last thing I need is more stress. lol.

Well personally my wedding is about two months away so I wouldn't be showing by the time the big day is here. I would be happy if I found out I was pregnant though. Oh well so you can't get bombed at the wedding but so what?

I know I'm scared. Been thinking about it a lot recently because I've been feeling a little off. I already have 1 child who's almost a year old. Maybe its just PMS. Lets hope. If I'm not already pregnant, I will definitely be taking the necessary precautions from here on out to not get pregnant. I was trying to do that but u know, we got kind of laxed with it. But I don't want to be big as hell on my wedding day. I have about 9 months til the big day so...yeah. Don't need to be gettin pregnant.

We waited to have sex, so pre-wedding pregnancy really wasn't an issue, but I can understand your concerns! We are careful now as well--I'm a senior in college and want to complete my degree and establish a career before we start a family! I've been on birth control for years (I have cyst issues and have to be taking BC regularly or they burst--ouch!) so I'm not toooo worried.

No matter what, a child is blessing--if for some reason it does happen, consider yourself lucky! Many women who are unable to conceive would sacrifice looking thin in their wedding dress to have the blessing of a child.

Good luck on your wedding day! You'll look lovely no matter what! All brides are beautiful!

Wow. I love all of your respones. I am just freaking out because every month I have to go through this. I always questions my FH and worry and as soon as I stop freaking out or stressing than it comes. It just never wracking. I think stress have a lot to do with my body functions and me drinking especailly on the weekend with family. Sometimes I don't think I am stressing but I am. I just hope that the day would be nice with out a baby in my stomach and hopefully be able to enjoy married life for an hole year. I am only 24 about to be 25 but I do plan to have my kids before 30 but not before the wedding.

Since we already have a child together,we went back forth about getting married while I was pregent and we decided that we would wait.I wanted to have to the big fancy wedding like you said in a nice dress and no belly showing plus I think it would have been very hard for me to plan a wedding in just a few months.We were already busy enough let along a wedding to plan.

It would be a lot to plan and you having a baby as well additional $$$$ over top of that

I completly get where you are coming from, i'm turning 21 a month before i wedding, i just went on birth control due to the same thought you have yes i would be beyond happy to combine both wonderful things into one, but i would want to enjoy my big day with an open bar just like everyone else gets to but that's me. My FH and i decided to wait till the honeymoon to "try". But my FH and i already have a daughter together, no one is meant to feel the same feeling on the same topic. Ive wanted to "expand" our family for a couple years but hes always wanted to wait till after becuase he said he would find it more meaningful that our child was concevied on our honeymoon.