Getting married in Dec in Pa so we are having the wedding inside his aunts vacation home. Its a very nice home..we will be saying or vows in front of a fireplace. Its a small wedding..small guest list 25-30 people. We are having it catered but I still want it to have that "wedding" feel and not just a nice dinner feel. Some im wondering did or are any of you having a first dance...garter/bouquet toss...the normal things that go on in weddings? Are you being walked into the area you are saying your vows in? Having music to walk into? Just kinda wondering cause I keep getting the feeling from some people in my life that since its just a house wedding there is no need for the regular wedding things to happen. thanks for the advice