So the good news is, my parents are back together. The bad news is my dad was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer last week, and now we're not sure if he's going to make it to our original date.
We were thinking of moving up the legal side of the wedding to June of 2020, and having a courthouse ceremony with just immediate family, and then doing a vow renewal on our original date in June of 2021, but I'm not sure where to even begin to pull that off or what we would need to do. I keep thinking in my head that it'll be like that movie the wedding planner, but I know that's an unrealistic expectation.
idk, I want my dad at our original plan, and for things to work out the way I want, but I also know that you don't get what you want, and he's more likely to make it 8 more months vs. another 20 months.