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MrsMcD
Expert August 2015

Any honeymoon regrets??

MrsMcD, on September 1, 2015 at 4:20 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 21

So today is the last day of our honeymoon. We're leaving in the morning to go home. We originally wanted a destination wedding but didn't feel comfortable asking people to travel so far for our wedding so! We invited close friends and family on the honeymoon. I was concerned it would turn into more...

So today is the last day of our honeymoon. We're leaving in the morning to go home. We originally wanted a destination wedding but didn't feel comfortable asking people to travel so far for our wedding so! We invited close friends and family on the honeymoon. I was concerned it would turn into more of a family vacation and not be like a HM at all. My DH assured me for months we would spend time together and it would be an even split. NOPE! In the 8 days we have been gone, we've had only two dinners (I should say two meals) alone. The only other alone time is when we're sleeping. We don't even go to bed together bc he's playing poker with his buddies. We are literally with people from breakfast until bed. My DH is so wonderful I really don't have any complaints about him but I'm so unhappy with this trip. It's been so fun, but it's the opposite of a HM. I think I just really needed to vent.

Do you have any HM regrets? Are you concerned about anything on your HM?

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  • Nicole
    Master July 2015
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    I totally understand where you are coming from. This is definitely an expectation difference between you and DH. I would talk with him, but tread lightly. I wouldn't want to come across as if I hated the trip, because that might hurt his feelings. Just tell him that you were disappointed that you didn't get more alone time with him. Take a weekend in a month or two and in a few years, take another big trip-just you two this time Smiley smile.

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