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Am I wrong for being angry?

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Andrea, on October 25, 2012 at 1:50 PM

Ok so Warning: This is a lengthy post! Sorry! A little back story before I go into what happened. Me and my FH Chris, have done things a bit nontraditional and out of the norm. We have been together for 7 years and have lived together for 5. We have always had the intentions of getting married but...

Ok so Warning: This is a lengthy post! Sorry!

A little back story before I go into what happened. Me and my FH Chris, have done things a bit nontraditional and out of the norm. We have been together for 7 years and have lived together for 5. We have always had the intentions of getting married but were content at the time just being together, considering how young we were. I started dating him when I was 17, he was 19. Ok so we talk about getting married often and what we would like to do. And I have expressed the venue I really wanted all the time. Having the intentions on proposing soon he started researching availability for that venue. He found out it books really fast. So we decided to go ahead and book it in advance and just not tell anyone until we were officially engaged. Well some things happened and I had to rely on my mother and sister for some help. Which meant spilling the beans of the venue....(Cont)

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WasSoon2BMrsSmith · on October 29, 2012 at 2:53 PM
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Usually when I read should i be angry posts. I answer yes cause so many people are un-reasonable.

However in your case Im actually pissed off for you. Who the fuck does she think she is. sorry you don't wanna share a room no matter what the circumstances if you don't wanna share you don't wanna share. Not your proble what her circumstances are, then top that with that he was gonna propose long awaited no less.

Screw her, she's being selfish. especially since your FH was gonna pay for her room (wether she knew that or not)

Im so pissed in your honour right now!

on the bright side you're finally gonna be ENGAGED so F-her and enjoy the planning
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Andrea · on October 29, 2012 at 3:59 PM
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Thank you! I have a problem with letting my family walk all over me. They are very minipulative, And for a second I thought maybe I was being petty. But my FH and you girls put things back in to perspective! My FH didn't want to share a room anyway, even if we were not getting engaged. My sister is 30 years old and married. Where does it end? Are we going to be 40 still sharing rooms? I wanted to help her out but it comes down to being an adult and holding your own. If we didn't have money to go with then I would have kindley backed out and arranged something to see them at a later date. I would NEVER expect a couple regardless of who they are to have to share a room with me. The good news is we are back to talking. Bad news is, she told me she is not apologizing for something she didn't do. She told me that when she spilled the beans my FH could have lied to cover it up. WTH?! How could he cover that up? And why should he have had too? She's just rediculous. But now that I think of it. It's very exciting knowing something like this is happening this weekend! And the suspense of when and how is killing me! Actually kind of fun! Thanks for the support ladies!!
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Future Mrs. Haley · on October 29, 2012 at 5:17 PM
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Let me tell you that you have all right to be angry and you need to let her know that her actions are not okay. I am going through a similar situation with my sister being selfish and honestly plain b***hy as well. Take it as a grain of salt, but do not let them walk all over you.
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