Am I the only that is tired of people asking about my wedding? (vent)

Everyone's an expert! I understand how you feel. Hang in there :o)

Like 300-400 people at the wedding. I can't pay for that much!!! It's like, "I've only known you for a few months. Just because we sat next to each other in class, does not mean we are best friends!!!" Everyone makes such a big fuss over the reception and seem to forget that the ceremony is the part that counts! There's a lot happening in my life now, not just my wedding. Sometimes when I talk to people, I start talking about some movie I saw or something about my class or even, IDK, my cat, but no, they just want to talk about my wedding. Again!!! I'm grateful they care, but sometimes I end up feeling conceded after doing nothing but talking about MY wedding after every conversation. I'm not the type that has to be center of the conversation all the time. Next time someone ask about the wedding, I'll just ask them a question and change the subject. As excited as i am about my big day, it is just one day and there are a lot of other important things I can talk about too.

They may not even realize that they are upsetting you. They are probably asking to show interest in your life. Try asking questions about what's going on with them to change the direction of the conversation.

Yeah, that's what I'm doing for now on. It's just sometimes it gets overwhelming. I just needed to vent a little

Hey, I found a dress for you! (sorry to get off subject) It doesn't have the off shoulder look but everything else is really romantic. Its really cute. I just have to find a way to upload it since I'm not at home

Here it is! Tell me what you think

I LOVE that dress! So cool!

I don't get bothered by it...but I don't get questions about prices and I see why it would bother you...that's private. And no one's asked me to show them my dress...they just ask if I have it yet...I think they understand how important the element of surprise is. Hang in there..they mean no harm..just tell them you want to keep things a surprise and the money thing...say your FH handles that and you don't know and change the subject. I think you'd be sad if no one asked at all. At least they care.

It bothers me, too. Especially when it's people I haven't seen in a while, and all they can ask about is the wedding. I have a lot of other things going on in my life that I would count as much more important than the wedding, and feel almost like it's demeaning. Like, who cares if I'm graduating from college in December, or I'm starting to stick my toes into the job pool, or, ya know, do ANYTHING other than wedding plan? I"M GETTING MARRIED!!!!!!! HAS to be more important than anything else.

I've just started saying things like "it's going well, we're enjoying the planning process, we're excited, we're not as stressed as people expect us to be"... For the most part, they catch on.

@Mrs.Joseph, wow that dress is so beautiful! thank you for posting it ^^

Thanks ladies, you made me feel better. Is nice to know I'm not the only one

@wowjunkie, I know what you mean! I'm finish college after this summer semester and that was so much work, but I guess that is not as important as the wedding, lol. What were you taking? I'm taking Finances.

@Mrs. Turner 2 B., that is a good point. I try to remember that

I'm a psychology major. And, yeah, I wish people would make as big of a deal over my academics as they do over my pretty pretty princess day! But then again, why be smart when you can be married! People...

I think it's rude for people to ask how much you paid for a certain item. I don't really get into telling a whole lot of people the details of my wedding either. Mostly b/c I got burned before and a so-called friend used the colors and a lot of details she knew i was planning to use. Anyhow! When people ask me I just tell them "Things are coming along fine". Or if I know someone is fishing I'll tell them "We're still working out the details".

I wish people WOULD ask me about the wedding. No one ever does Is that a bad sign??

@heavnsnt128, how's the wedding planning been going? Getting excited about the big day? ^^

Lol! Thanks

It's going. I just graduated and stayed away from big wedding planning while in school because I couldn't focus on both--and I knew wedding planning would consume me. I've got a lot of ideas and inspirations. We have a venue and date reserved and are getting ready to reserve the photographer. Need to meet up with the DJ soon.

I'm totally excited about the big day!! I wish that I was getting married this spring/summer instead of next, but I also know that I need the time. Now if I could just get my body to cooperate with me and lose weight, it'd all be awesome.