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Just Said Yes June 2017

Am I being a jerk by asking my bridesmaids not to cut their hair?

Brianna, on May 2, 2017 at 11:57 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 41

**EDIT: Thanks for your responses, I am a jerk! I will rescind my requests. Thanks for your input!** My wedding is in 7 weeks, so it's getting to crunch time. I am getting accusations of being a "bridezilla" from a couple of the women in my bridal party because I asked them not to cut their hair. I...

**EDIT: Thanks for your responses, I am a jerk! I will rescind my requests. Thanks for your input!**

My wedding is in 7 weeks, so it's getting to crunch time. I am getting accusations of being a "bridezilla" from a couple of the women in my bridal party because I asked them not to cut their hair.

I let all of my bridesmaids pick their own dresses, I just assigned a color palette and asked that it be floor length. The only thing I have asked for specifically is to not cut their hair short/shorter than it already is. My MOH and one bridesmaid are making a big stink about it. The bridesmaid went ahead and cut her hair very short anyway, and then I found out she has an appointment 2 weeks before the wedding to take it up to the same length as it was after the first cut. I asked her to postpone the appointment and she got really annoyed with me.

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  • CaboBride2018
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    CaboBride2018 ·
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    Sounds like you realize that you were being unreasonable, which is great. Make sure you sincerely apologize to your BMs! Even the ones that didn't directly object to your request

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