Addressing envelopes

I think it should be addressed to the guest and add a small slip inside with a plus one added. I have the same issue, but I will address 1 person only.

I don't follow etiquette for these kinds of things and will probably just address them as such:

Miss Megan Spicer

Mr. Evan O'Leary

Such and such an address

that town

Canada

That way she can't just bring some random friend if her bf can't make it.

I agree with Judith...I did the same thing. I would rather know (at least the name) of my friend's plus one, so why not include him/her on the invitation?

I did the same as Judith too. Guess it's not totally etiquette, but oh well I sent it to the address of the primary guest.

Since not everyone is going to see all of your invites, they have no clue how you address them. I am doing a little of everything.

I will invite some, 'and guest", or both names, listing primary guest first, but a few special couples who don't live together, like my sons and their girlfriends, I will send a separate invitation, so the girls don't feel like an afterthought.

I'm not addressing them "and guest." I'm just putting the person's name and adding "and guest"on the RSVP card.

I'm doing both names, even though they don't live together. I know them all personally, so for me, including them by name is more important than following etiquette guidelines.

We did Mr. John Doe and Ms. Jane smith. I had a few of these unless we didn't know or my case remember the SO's name they got guest

I am bringing this post back...

So if we have a good friend Mr. John Smith and he has had a gf that we know over the years, Ms. Jane Doe... and they DO NOT live together... are most people putting:

Mr. John Smith

Ms. Jane Doe

xxx street etc.

instead of Mr. John Smith and Guest

and what do you mean for the inside envelope? Do the bride and groom write on the line on the RSVP that has the M______________________ ?

or do we write the guests' return address on the RSVP envelope?

I am so confused