A little offended...

That happened to me too! One of FH's co-workers (who is coming to our wedding in 2 weeks) put "FH name and guest"... like seriously, A- you're coming to my wedding in 2 weeks you have our invite that has my name on it, don't be lazy and rude, and B-his FS is a wedding planner and should know better! That said, they also are having a multi-party wedding (indian wedding) and have events that we aren't invited to but included the invite cards for those events anyway... just overall poorly exucuted.

My cousin addressed our invite to "Sam ***** and Antoine ?" They didn't write my full first name (they had my last name but you know, Internet so it's redacted) but they literally put a question mark for his last name.

Very very rude! I wasn't sure of my husbands cousins BF's name so I dug into Facebook and Instagram and easily found it. If I didn't then I would have immediately text her and explained why I needed it.

Might be petty but maybe address gift as "Bride & Groom" lol

Relax. Not worth losing a friendship over.

I don't think it really matters that much. I just went to my future husband's cousins wedding, and I've met them at family gatherings, and they listed me as "guest" on the invite. I really just don't care. There's a lot of family and I have trouble keeping track of everyone. I'll try my best to get all the names for my invites, but it's just not the end of the world. I think etiquette can get a little crazy sometimes.

You think this sucks...my sister and her husband have been married for 11 years and they were invited to a wedding. The envelope first had a label. First NO NO. Then second was address as "Mr. Brian White +1" I almost died when I saw it.

I feel your pain, like others have said it's lazy planning and just rude when you're an established couple. FH and I had been engaged for about 3 months, been dating for 5 1/2 years and lived together for 5 of those. We went to my cousins wedding, he(my FH) had met her and her FH a few times, we put both our names on the rsvp and FH was on the seating chart as "and guest" it made both of us mad. Taught me a good lesson though! The only people on my seating chart with "&guest" are truly single and we have no idea who they'll bring.

At least you got an guest my fh got an invite in the mail last week without anything and I went to school with the groom so I know he knows my name. On the RSVP it said two seats however there was no guest or other name on the invite I'm like come on. We aren't going due to other plans but I was slight offended

Rude!!!!! And yes, lazy!!!! I would be offended also!!

I would be offended too! My best friend from high school invited me to something once while I was still living with my parents, but sent the invitation addressed to them, with me added to it. Mind you, I was in my twenties!! I was PISSED. She had asked me if I was coming...I told her I never got an invite...because I didn't.y parents did. Oy.

Maybe they did ask him and he didn't give any feedback. I asked my fiancé to tell me his friend's girlfriend/fiancé's names and the guys failed to tell him, so I just put "and guest". It was taking forever to get the information that I needed and I had to send out the invites.

Not being dramatic at all. I would've been as upset ! You're right; they could've asked tour FH for your name.

Ok. Playing devil's advocate. Perhaps it was a mistake.

When I was making my seating chart, I couldn't remember how to spell one of the groomsmen's girlfriend's name, so I wrote "and guest" temporarily until I could ask my then-fiance how to spell it. Well, I completely forgot, and then my sister offered to take my chart and make it fancy for the reception. And still forgot.

The day of the wedding, I didn't even look at it. The groomsmen gave my husband some shit for it, good-naturedly of course, but I was horrified. It was an honest mistake.

I just had the same thing happen to me as well! FH best friend from childhood is getting married actually next week now but there wedding invite came addressed to him and guest. I was mortified. Especially because you haf no problem writing my name out for a bridal shower invite and such and this is a person who we see regularly so me being the blunt person i asked about it and i was told that the Bride does not care for me.

I'd be offended too, that's rude.

But, don't let it bother you too much... or you can do the same to them when you send out your invites lol

Meh. She might not have known your last name

Let it go. People have a lot of invitations to write, and it's not personal. I would not be offended at something like that.

Tacky. Maybe somebody else addressed the invitations. My friend Peggy received flowers for her 10th anniversary from her husband. It was signed "Best Wishes from Davidsons' Trucking Company". She was angry at the time but laughs about it now.