40 days before our DW and we get a text from one of the groomsmen saying "dont hate me, but I cant go."
Now let me say that all along he has been the only one not booked and dragging his feet on everything so we continually asked him if he was sure he was going to be able to go and he would always reassure us that he wouldnt miss it for the world (he is partially responsible for FH and I meeting). But now, with 40 days left, we have his gifts bought (so were out money) and we dont have time to fill that spot had we wanted to....UGH Im just so frustrated! This guy has been married before, he should have had the respect to understand that his actions have now affected our wedding in a way that we had not expected!!