So b4 the etiquette police come for me I want to say I really don’t care about what a bridesmaids only requirement is to buy the dress and show up!
I let ALL my bridesmaids know 10 months ago the requirements of this title! Pay for dress, makeup and hair! Everyone was ok! I pick a dress that was $140 and had to do a little alterations so all together $170! I got dress from azazie so they can make sure they get the right sizes! Long story short bridesmaid didn’t try on not one dress and order her dress 3 sizes to small! Which she never told me it was too little🙄 When alterations started she was told it will be way more because she have to take it out 8 inches she will cost $150! Now 11 days b4 the wedding she saying she not getting her hair or makeup done and will be doing them herself!
So I told her to step down cause it’s her fault and I shouldn’t have to pay for the expense when she knew the price from the beginning and agreed to them! But I do feel bad for our relationship after have any had to deal with this so close to the wedding?