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Joshua Roller
Joshua Roller

One half of an awesome couple that so happens to be international and gay! After 6.5 years we've decided to tie the knot and settle back down in... View More

One half of an awesome couple that so happens to be international and gay! After 6.5 years we've decided to tie the knot and settle back down in California where I'm from. Jian and I met in China where he's from. We are about half way through the K1 visa process and now ready to start planning our Chinese-infused modern wedding so there will be red involves, but not quite sure of the hue. I would like to do grey and bright green, but that doesn't go well with Chinese elements in our wedding. I like classic and minimally elegant, but not antiquated. I'm think a venue with exposed brick or wood.

Happily married 🎉

October 5, 2019

1812days 17hrs
Jennifer
Lgbt+ Couples
Jennifer, on November 13, 2018 at 2:43 PM

Any LGBT+ couples out there planning your wedding?

Tiffani, Aug 12, 2019 18 2
Joshua Roller
lgbt couples, where you at?
Joshua Roller, on March 28, 2019 at 2:40 AM

Hey, fam! Josh and Jian here. Our story started back in 2012 in Shanghai. I (Josh) was living and working overseas and came across this cutie who stole my heart. He’s sweet, patient, caring, kind, and...

Bronte, May 27, 2019 40 1
Joshua Roller
Men’s wedding bands
Joshua Roller, on March 28, 2019 at 9:13 PM

I’m curious to know everyone’s budget for wedding bands (men’s) and where you’ve been looking. Ive looked at some online stores and got an estimate from my jeweler in DTLA. Share your designs and...

Julia, Apr 29, 2019 69
M
Bringing in alcohol for a no outside alcohol venue
Michelle, on March 27, 2019 at 7:58 PM

We have to use our venues alcohol packages but I want to do mini bottles of alcohol for escort cards. My wedding is on New Years Eve. Do you think that would be ok or am I violating policy??? I love...

Alisha, Mar 31, 2019 39
Samantha
Los Angeles Budget Breakdown?
Samantha, on March 7, 2019 at 7:34 PM

Hi everyone! I'm looking to get married in the LA area, and wondering how other people have budgeted given the costs here. Did you spend most of your budget on the venue? What about music? I'm finding...

Dulce, Apr 29, 2019 8 1
Vanessa
Couples getting married on October 4, 2020 in California
Vanessa, on February 15, 2019 at 4:04 PM

Any advice on how to pick a venue?

Joshua Roller, Mar 25, 2019 3
Hali
Venue confirmation
Hali, on March 24, 2019 at 1:22 AM

How long does it take/what is the process for confirming a wedding venue? We toured a place we liked and they told us they're working on providing us materials after I've told then we wanted a date...

Hali, Mar 26, 2019 3
Kylie
Choosing a Date
Kylie, on January 4, 2019 at 4:51 PM

Hey y’all!! My fiancé and I have been engaged for a little over a week now. I was wondering how did y’all pick your date?? The one we have put up right now is just one of the dates we talked about (he...

Lil Bug, Apr 5, 2019 124
Rachel
8 months out
Rachel, on March 2, 2019 at 10:17 AM

So we’re about 8 months out. What should I be focusing on right now? I have the venue, DJ, my dress, caterer and centerpieces.

Future Mrs. Polar Be, Mar 27, 2019 23
Krystin
Your first picture together...
Krystin, on March 20, 2019 at 6:48 PM

12 years ago, my future husband was swinging me around in our school play. I can't believe this boy is the man I get to marry!

Brittany, Mar 21, 2019 25
Micah
Lgbt+ Hashtag #help
Micah, on January 6, 2019 at 10:01 PM

Hi! My fiancé and I are struggling to find a hashtag we like and want to make sure it’s incorporated into save the dates, website, etc. His name is Blake Brown and i’m Micah Mills. We are unsure of...

Sherry, Mar 21, 2019 5
Michelle
Getting frustrated, low budget
Michelle, on March 15, 2019 at 10:12 PM

Our overall budget is under $3k, which is very difficult to do in Southern California. Of course our date is within wedding season (fiancés grandfathers birthday) so changing the date to an off...

MrsD, Mar 18, 2019 25
Jayla
Where will you live together?
Jayla, on November 27, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Once you tie the knot, where will you and your significant other live together? Shout out your city or state! Are you staying in your current place or moving? Your place, their place, or somewhere...

Melle, Jul 24, 2019 85
Lynnie
Where in the world...?
Lynnie, on November 27, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Where in the world has your love story taken place? We want to hear all the details of your most memorable moments! Image from PaperPlanePrints on Etsy Ready? Click on the linked discussions below and...

Lauren, Feb 10, 2019 24
earias
Let's see your burgundy color inspiration!
earias, on April 30, 2018 at 5:06 PM

Burgundy seems to be a popular wedding color lately - no matter the season! I used burgundy in my wedding because I love how rich and vibrant it comes across both in person and in photographs. It is a...

Marshee, Oct 20, 2018 50
Neffe
Are you Doing a First Look?
Neffe, on July 31, 2018 at 10:05 AM

Are you sticking with tradition and “saving the best for last” and waiting for the walk down the aisle? Or, are you doing a first look and sharing a moment of intimacy before the official I-do’s? When...

Joshua Roller, Oct 20, 2018 61
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