Discussions I've participated in

Alright so our wedding is a year away and of course I am already choosing colors, the list, venues, etc. But anytime I ask my fiance what he thinks or wants he seems so uninterested. I finally asked...

(For the purposes of this post, anyone under 18 is considered a child.) In making our guest list, we are starting to consider children of friends as something of an issue. We have some friends who...

Today we got the tuxedos picked out.. what are other groomsmen paying per guy. Each guy will pay 219 per guy. This includes tux socks shoes.. is that a lot? We had one person say that it is a lot....

Has anyone had otter pops at the wedding reception. We are having them and I want to know the best way to keep them frozen. I would like to just use ice and not dry ice. Would ice and salt be cold...

Hi! My FH has left choosing his ring up to me because ‘anything from you will be perfect’. I asked him for details on what kind of thing he wants- ideally (yellow) gold tone, 4mm thickness Not boring...

I find myself posting more as the planning moves along and things get more challenging! Thanks to all you keeping me sane. So my father has graciously paid for about half of my wedding. I have given...

Are you all inviting co-workers to your wedding? If so, how did you decide who? I work in an office of 96 women and on a team of 42. I want to invite 3 lol. I’m not close to the other 39 or my boss,...

How soon would you reserve hotel blocks?

My fiancée and I are wondering if it is appropriate to give another co-worker a gift for her upcoming wedding. We wanted to do something nice, but we are concerned that it will look like we are...

Anyone honeymooned or vaca in northern michigan? If so what did you do?

Hello, I have a handful of guests, who live in Canada, I'm sending invites to for my wedding. I live in the US. I know to send Canadians letters, I need to put 3 US stamps on it. However, does anyone...

We are 5 weeks out (yay!) our caterer is asking for final numbers. It’s $68 per head.. what is the proper etiquette for people who haven’t RSVP’d or the one family member who can’t commit? Text...

I am getting married to a Persian. It is her first wedding and my second wedding. Unfortunately her mother passed away a couple of years ago and her father and siblings will not be able to attend due...

I will not have enough vacation time accrued to take a honeymoon right after our wedding. Plus we just can’t afford it. Who else has taken a “later honeymoon?” Did you go ahead and start planning it...

My FH doesn't want to fly because he has never flown (scared/doesnt like acceleration) and he also doesn't want to go on a cruise, but we live in Georgia and we are super adventurous. None of the...