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My fiancé and I have paid for the wedding all by ourselves. His parents have helped with planning, decorations and vendors, but mine have not really helped with anything regarding the wedding,...

FH and I are getting married at the courthouse, in a month. Our immediate families will be there along with a photographer. I’m just wondering what kinds of gifts brides are giving grooms. I’d like to...

Since a lot of my guests are from oot, people are telling me I “have to” do a welcome dinner. The only problem with this is I will have SO many oot guests I don’t think this would come very cheap,...

Hey hey, is or has anyone done mismatch bridesmaid dresses. If so, how did you select? Feel welcome to post pics of inspiration.

Let's talk about these invites y'all... I've been team Vistaprint for a long time and fully intended to get all of my invite stuff from them as my STD's and other paper products have come from there...

I keep going back and forth about doing assigned tables. I like the structure of having it done and picking where people sit for a number of reasons, mostly family drama. But at the same time I’m...

Hi everyone! For RSVPs, did you notice the “yes” replies come in sooner than declines? Do people usually wait until the deadline to decline the RSVP, or do people usually decline early on?

Hey yall! So I’m doing those dances at the same time, do y’all have any suggestion as to what songs would work? Or what songs you used? Neither parents care and are of zero help so it’s all up to me...

5 days to go and I'm ridiculously excited about being able to use my tables in my apartment and walk comfortably down my hallway again! I had no idea when I started planning just how much STUFF we...

I’m 3 weeks out, and I can’t make a decision for the life of me! Mainly just the processional for everyone else and then song I’m walking to. I know I’m being overly picky; I want them to mesh, don’t...

I am so seriously stumped this time and we have 15 days left! Help! So here's the problem. We still haven't chosen our processional, recessional, or first dance songs. I have it narrowed down to a few...

Is anyone else doing 2 dresses or a skirt over their shorter dress. I think i want a different look for the ceremony and reception. Thought? Have you done it? Bridal Salons with good amounts of...

What did everyone use for table assigning? I prefer an app and have a android. I have tried allseated and seating arrangements

The bride informed me that she expects panties from the bridal party for her bachelorette party. Is this typical? We have a larger party planned for half the day, and just the bridesmaids and close...

Does anyone have an groomsmen gift ideas that aren’t super expensive? All we can think of is a pocket knife, flask, maybe tie clips?! We are lost lol