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I was reading another thread about what songs were on peoples "do not play list" and I was surprised how many people said they were banning all the line dance songs, ie, The Cha Cha Slide, Electric...

How can you plan for wishy washy RSVPs? I have more than I'd like that have RSVPd yes (or in some cases, their mother RSVP'd yes for them, despite the fact that they are adults) that have since told...

Is the bachelorette party supposed to be a surprise party? Or should they ask what they bride wants to do?

Hi everyone! My future cousin-in-law and I are having a joint bridal shower. Is it standard at showers to open the gifts in front of everyone? I feel like since it is a joint shower it will take us a...

So in the past two weeks I have found out that my maid of honor and my only bridesmaid are both pregnant- one due a week before our date and one a week after. Of course I am super excited for them but...

So we get to create a signature cocktail with our package through our venue. FH and I have very different tastes when it comes to alcohol, I'm a vodka and wine girl and he's into craft beer and...

I keep waffling on what to do about table numbers. My reception is very elegant and classic. But I can't figure out how to do table numbers.

I hate to buy my girls more stuff they don’t need or already have. Seems like most common gifts are monogrammed bags or some form of jewelry. What do bridesmaids actually want? What’s a nice gift or a...

Our wedding is January 4, 2020. Almost half of our guests are out of town (requiring plane travel). How soon is too soon to mail them out? Is more than 6 months away too soon? I have them created just...

So my wedding isnt until feb 22 2020 .... according to my timeline on the website i should send my STDs in june and send my invites in november .... but my mom said that they should send out STDs in...

I have two brothers an older and a younger & when we first embarked on this a year ago they were both single. In the past six months they both started seeing someone & I'm conflicted on...

We are having 3FG and 3RB and I'm freaking out! Kids will be at time of wedding 9, 6, 3 4yr olds(2 are twins boy and girl) and one will be 2yrs old 4 months after wedding). But thinking about having...

I got my menu options from the resort and we are currently debating what we want to choose.. I don’t want to do buffet because I have hated waiting in line to get my food in past weddings.. but we...

Okay I think I’ve figured out what I’m getting my Bridesmaids. I ended up deciding on a nice candle from Bath & Body Works (FH works there and gets 40% off!!) which are 100% exchangeable and...

So my fiance and I are struggling to agree on whether we should attend the brunch the day after with our friends and family. Most of our guests are family from out of town, and our max guest count is...

Hey Ladies have anybody here been in a situation that you no longer wanted 1 or 2 of the bridesmaids you originally picked out in the begining? In wanting to get rid of one because I disnt know she...

Hey ladies! What is everyone doing for their bridesmaid gifts? I was thinking robes and personalized hangers and a bottle of wine and a necklace that each of them can wear for the wedding. Any other...

Should I give my MOH get a plus one? She isnt currently in a relationship so I didn’t think of giving her a plus one. When I was talking to her about the guest list she said she had already asked a...

Hello all! I had a HMU trial a couple months ago and LOVED it! I traveled to her about an hour away (around where the wedding will be), and tipped at about 20%. My mom later asked why I did,...