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Hay there! My name is Alyssa (Allie) and I'm getting married on October 14th, 2018. I love talking about wedding planning and getting to know people :)

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Happily married 🎉

October 14, 2018

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Pro Bam - 10/14/18
AllieB25, on December 12, 2018 at 6:08 PM

2 months post-wedding and I'm finally getting around to this - it's probably going to be word and pic heavy, so prepare yourselves. I don't think I'm an expert or anything, so I don't think I'm in any...

Maggie, Dec 20, 2018 18 313
Bam pro preview!
AllieB25, on October 30, 2018 at 4:23 PM

We finally did it! 10/14 was awesome and also a total blur. We got some preview pics from our photographer and I'm obsessed! man and wifebefore the ceremony our first look

alysmw, Nov 1, 2018 16 315
What would be considered a reasonable amount for a wedding dress that won't break the bank?
Kaeli, on September 27, 2018 at 5:46 AM

In search for my wedding dress but dress shops that I have been to, the dresses ran $3,000 or more, which just doesn't seem legitimate to me. Any tips?

Pamela, Sep 28, 2018 30
Vendor deposits dear God help
Kylie, on September 13, 2018 at 11:39 PM

Any tips & tricks for managing all of these godforsaken vendor deposits? Everybody wants an amount of money that I never have lying around (anywhere from $1k to 50% of total cost) just to...

c, Sep 14, 2018 11
Promoting a bridesmaid to maid of honor
Bethany, on September 14, 2018 at 3:40 AM

Hey guys. So I have a maid of honor--We've been friends since I was 5, always been there, wouldn't be where I am today without her, etc,etc. Well! She has been a HORRIBLE maid of honor. Like, has done...

Happy Hedgie, Sep 14, 2018 28
Sensitive lips - Think i should try Lipsense?
Mabel, on September 13, 2018 at 1:38 PM

I have very sensitive lips that get dry/uncomfortable easily, even though I wear a lip hydrating mask every night and moisturize. It's hard for me to find lipstick and the only kind I've found I can...

Ashley, Sep 14, 2018 15
Planning my own bridal shower
Jess, on September 11, 2018 at 9:37 AM

I am a planner, I enjoy it. My MOH lives 2 hours away and the rest of my bridesmaids are 45 minutes to an hour away. I am planning the majority of my bridal shower ie. Invites, a few decorations, a...

Sherry, Feb 26, 2019 6
Wedding dress - how much did you spend?
Melissa, on September 10, 2018 at 11:30 PM

What did y’all spend on a wedding dress? How much is to steep? I don’t want to cheat myself cause I tend to be frugal about money. But I want to be in love with my dress. I don’t want to settle...

Colleen, Nov 24, 2018 30
Vegan bridesmaid??!!!
Alyssa, on September 7, 2018 at 5:10 PM

So I'm having a bridesmaids, maid of honor & fliwer girl dinner at my house on Sunday & I have no idea what to make, especially since one of my cousin bridesmaid recently said she is vegan now...

April, Oct 3, 2019 8
Alterations vent
AllieB25, on September 4, 2018 at 9:33 AM

Okay ya'll, I need to vent and get some stuff of my chest. My dress needs a lot of alterations. I am a small person (4'10") and the dress that I bought couldn't be ordered in a 'petite' size....

Tammy, Sep 4, 2018 8
Meme your planning mood!
Jayla, on August 31, 2018 at 1:05 PM

Planning a wedding can be like a rollercoaster: it’s bumpy at times but tons of fun! What mood does your planning have you in? Meme it! Photo via Pinterest

Mrs. J, Sep 4, 2018 30
Sara, on September 1, 2018 at 10:31 PM

For our big day, my fiancé and I are thinking about having a baked potato bar... what are yalls thoughts? We want to stay away from having a huge meal..just costs more. Everyone loves baked potatoes....

Maggie, Oct 25, 2018 17
Honeymoon Fund
Wendy, on August 1, 2018 at 8:06 AM

We've both been married before and currently live together. We aren't planning on showers nor expecting gifts. Would it be rude to have a Honeymoon jar set out? I know there are people out there...

MrsD, Aug 1, 2018 8
Show me your wedding websites!
Elizabeth, on May 3, 2018 at 1:30 PM

If you don't mind sharing, I'd love to see! Trying to get ideas for mine which I want to have up by summer but I'm struggling. Just looking for inspiration!

Alyssa, May 28, 2018 21
Mrs. Sponge
Today is the Day!!
Mrs. Sponge, on April 27, 2018 at 8:14 AM

We had our rehearsal last night. Our DOC did show up so that’s a good sign. The JP was the real rockstar of the night though! He was awesome, kept the rehearsal short and sweet but we did find some...

Neffe, Jun 22, 2018 37
Me vs Model (short bride syndrome)
Becca, on April 27, 2018 at 7:25 AM

I had some time after my dentist appt the other day and snuck into a bridal shop to try on dresses for the first time ever. I’m going dress shopping this weekend with the girls, but needed an idea of...

Kenzie Wulk, Jan 30, 2019 100
SusieQue, on April 25, 2018 at 1:12 PM

Anyone else not having a professional photographer at their wedding?

Katie, Apr 25, 2018 73
Website wording
AugustBride, on April 25, 2018 at 2:26 PM

Hi everyone, Maybe I am overthinking this lol. But I have a section that says "Parking: There will be free self parking at both the ceremony and reception locations" My FH says to also put something...

WED18, Apr 25, 2018 9
Show me your dresses!!!
Kaleigh, on March 21, 2018 at 2:20 PM

I love seeing other happy brides dresses!!! Show me yours!! Here’s mine!! ❤️❤️

raquel, Oct 10, 2019 71