Discussions I've participated in

So We aren't having a flower girl or a ring bearer... I assume we give both rings to our best man? Or do I give his ring to my maid of honor and the best man just holds my ring? I am not sure how that...

Has anybody ever not sent RSVP cards and asked guests to reply only on their website or over the phone? We're trying be as environmentally friendly as possible and would love to save all that extra...

Just curious.... is anyone else marrying their Tinder date or is it just me? 😂 Or online match? I never thought I’d find the love of my life the way I did, but he has changed everything I thought I...

We postponed our wedding by a year but i would like to keep our date which means we would now be having a sunday wedding. Our plans are to have a sunset wedding in late september, but with it moving...

Hello! Did any of you pay a calligrapher to hand address your envelopes? If so, was it worth it? What were the factors that helped you choose a calligrapher? Was it price? Their writing style? Their...

I have been thinking about and seeing a lot about the processional order lately, and i am curious who you are having walk you down the aisle and why! Are you sticking with tradition and walking with...

Just got our first one- responding back that him, his wife and their two kids will be there. Kids weren’t on invite. Its one of FHs oldest friends. They are traveling across country to come so I’m...

I know this has been asked before but I couldn't find anything that fit my exact situation. We have 39 days till the wedding. And RSVPs are due first week of October. We have a few friends that we did...

Upon getting married, how are you or ARE you planning on changing your name? I am leaning towards hyphenating my name. My FH's last name is Sandy. My last name is Williams. So, Andrea Williams-Sandy!...

Hey ladies! I’m 25 days out from my wedding (OMG!!!!) and I’m trying to get last minute details done. Our officiant is an old family friend who was also a pastor. He now runs a local non profit...

I feel like I have no one to turn to and no one to talk to about my current situation without being judged or ridiculed in the process. My fiancé has been trying to be a people pleaser for too long,...

I’m stressed over who to ask to be in my bridal party! My FH has decided he wants to have four groomsman, including 3 old friends and my brother. I have asked my oldest friend to basically serve as my...

The night before your wedding, where will you, your fiance and wedding party be? Where will you guys be getting ready? 1. At home? 2. At a hotel? 3. At an AirB&B? 4. Somewhere else?

What sort of guidelines, if any did you give or have you given your bridesmaids? All must wear floor length dress? Style must only be sweet heart? All must wear the same fabric, but can wear...

We are having a small ceremony so I made two different list, one for the ceremony and one for the celebration only. Because we are having them on two different days, BUT I cant seem to delete or hide...

Hi everyone - I just found out that my future in-law's are paying for the hotel for the groom's side of the wedding party (4 people) - but not my side (also 4 people). I'm a little irritated because...

What is everyone doing for there wedding favors we’re having a hard time choosing what to do.