Discussions I've participated in

My groom doesn’t like cake so I am planning to get him an ice cream cake for his grooms cake. I would like to have the cake be a theme like a normal grooms cake would be (either Harley Davison,...

It’s been awhile since I’ve been to a wedding so im curious what most people do? We are having a buffet and we will be cutting the cake towards the end of the hour reserved for dinner. After cake we...

Did you have the full song play for your first dance, father/daughter and mother/son dance? The full length of our first dance song is 3.5 minutes, the length for the dance with my dad is 3.5 minutes,...

My FH is having a hard time selecting a song for him and his mom to dance to. It was just him and her while he was growing up and she worked really hard to make sure they had a roof over their head...

For welcome bags did you do them for people in your hotel block or for people who are out of town? We have people who are not ‘out of town’ staying in or hotel block and we have people who are out of...

What are some things your MIL helped you with in regards to the wedding? My FMIL really wants to help with the wedding which is great but her taste in decor is very different from mine and she doesn’t...

We sent save the dates 8 months before the wedding date. But we have since added a few people to our list. We planned to send the wedding invitations 8 weeks before our date but should we send the...

This is probably going to sound silly. I don’t think I’ve ever been to a ceremony with a ring bearer so I’m just looking for some clarification. Our ring bearer is 7 and responsible enough to hold the...

I think I’m making this more complicated than it needs to be. I’m stuck on our processional and how to seat the VIP members. Do grandmothers get escorted by ushers or their husbands? We are using 2...

HI All - I am going to have assigned tables. Both my FH and I have divorced parents. How would you assign them? And who would be at the table with them? (FH has siblings, I don't) My dad is possibly...

So I am DIY-ing a lot and was planning on painting programs onto canvas. I only have one done and is the one with the BP names on it. A GM dropped out and frankly, I'm thinking of either scrapping...

I'm starting to work on addressing invitations today! I know some people don't like doing it (which is understandable), but I think it's fun to look at all the names/addresses and think about how...

What do you think about having guest pay for their own beers ????