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Hi! I’m a 23 year old New Yorker- My fiancé and I have been engaged for 3.5 years, but we have a 2.5 year old daughter together and want to wait until she... View More

Hi! I’m a 23 year old New Yorker- My fiancé and I have been engaged for 3.5 years, but we have a 2.5 year old daughter together and want to wait until she is old enough to participate in the wedding. I’m a huge control freak & planner so I have almost everything planned already- including already saying yes to the dress!

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October 13, 2018

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Florists in ny
Kimberly, on January 26, 2018 at 8:09 PM

Hi All! How much did you spend on a flowers in NY? What did you get for the price? i am trying to get an estimate for our budget. Thanks!

persimonefink, Feb 21, 2018 9
First Look Opinions
PaulaAnn95, on February 6, 2018 at 5:15 PM

I am so torn between doing a first look or not! Reasons I want to are that my FH can be a little awkward with his emotions in front of crowds, so it gives us the privacy, and (not a good reason but) I...

Felicia, Feb 12, 2018 37
Wedding Venue
Marcella, on February 1, 2018 at 12:14 AM

Hello , If anyone can help me . My fiance and I are looking for a barn venue, winery or an rustic theme look for our wedding. The month is March and it will be on a Monday we plan to get married. We...

PaulaAnn95, Feb 6, 2018 4
Couples getting married on Oct 7, 2018 in New York
QueenDavis, on February 2, 2018 at 9:28 AM

We have 249 days!!!!! What have you all gotten done. I feel like I have everything done, but still feel like I'm missing something.

Stephanie, Jul 8, 2018 3
Help! Hudson Valley ny
Cia, on February 2, 2018 at 1:00 PM

Big dilema here- my future husband and I both have large families. We never wanted a big wedding but we want to do something. We don’t want to go broke for a few hours of one day but I did want to...

Sweet Lynn, Mar 15, 2018 11
How much for your dress?
Victoria, on January 29, 2018 at 8:13 AM

So I went dress shopping yesterday and I found “the” dress that I’m in love with. It’s $1400 before alterations. I literally can’t fathom paying that much for a dress for one night.... I fell...

Ashley, Feb 15, 2018 57
Narrowed my wedding dress selections to three!
Pham, on January 25, 2018 at 12:23 AM

I finally narrowed down my wedding dresses to 3 choices! I’d love some input I’m so stuck. And if you guys can’t tell I love the cold shoulder look lol. Note: the second dress would be in ivory. And...

Evelyn, Feb 25, 2018 192
Which dress?!
Karen , on January 31, 2018 at 2:44 PM

Hey everyone! So I am torn between two dresses. I love BOTH. What do you guys think?

PaulaAnn95, Feb 6, 2018 57
The wedding dress dilemma
Annika, on February 6, 2018 at 2:59 PM

I bought my wedding dress (left picture) a couple weeks ago and I love it, but then I tried on this other dress (right picture) yesterday. I tried it on just mess around with a sticky bra I just...

Kristen, Feb 7, 2018 25
Weight Loss
Bride2beeee, on January 17, 2018 at 9:42 PM

Is losing 25-30 too much after you’ve bought your dress? I’m about 180+ I don’t really look it but I’ve been wanting to get somewhere between 150-160 for the longest. I have a real hard time...

PaulaAnn95, Feb 6, 2018 8
Birth control?!!
Lee, on February 4, 2018 at 11:45 PM

Not looking to get pregnant after wedding anytime soon! Curious on what birth control everyone takes? I’m nervous about starting after reading so many horrible things!

Allie, Feb 7, 2018 37
Feeling really self-conscious
Melanie , on February 6, 2018 at 7:41 AM

I have always been a thick girl.. even when i was the best shape of my life I was considered thick. I have put on some pounds in the last 10 years and my family makes sure I'm aware of it.. then my...

PaulaAnn95, Feb 6, 2018 28
Kansas , on February 6, 2018 at 12:40 PM

Our venue includes dinner, cake and dj. As far as tips go, who do we tip? Each of those or are all given to the host? What's the etiquette?

Kansas, Feb 7, 2018 6
Inviting coworkers and their spouses
mia, on February 6, 2018 at 3:01 PM

I work at a small office and am planning on inviting my coworkers. We are a very close group of girls. While I do not have a problem inviting them and their spouses, my problem is that my fiance and I...

muriel, Feb 6, 2018 8
Bridal 'shower' but not really
@brd2be, on February 6, 2018 at 12:00 PM

So my bridesmaids wanted to throw me a shower, which I am super grateful for! But I am not a huge fan of showers - I get anxiety and we also have a pretty small home and do not have the storage for a...

PaulaAnn95, Feb 6, 2018 11
wedding Bam! :) 12.15.17
Ana, on February 6, 2018 at 4:49 PM

Sorry it’s a little late, but here are some of our wedding photos! We had the time of our lives and the day went so smoothly. I wish I could relive it over & over again. The day flew by so...

starsinwaves, Feb 6, 2018 12
To belt or not to belt...
AllieB25, on January 31, 2018 at 11:24 AM

I'm considering whether or not my dress needs a belt. It comes with a belt of sorts that is the same color and fabric of the skirt, but it's easily detachable. Do ya'll think a different kind of belt...

mataDC, Feb 1, 2018 29
Weight loss in 3 weeks
Meagan, on January 25, 2018 at 9:12 PM

Hey guys so in 3 weeks to the day I am going wedding dress shopping. I wanted to lose at least 10 pounds by then which I believe is totally possible. Any suggestions??

Carolyn, Apr 26, 2018 26
Kadie, on January 25, 2018 at 9:18 PM

What personal dances are you all doing? Obviously first dance. Father daughter? Mother son?

LoveAlwaysWin, Jan 26, 2018 5