Discussions I've participated in

Hi ladies! I know I can't be the only one here feeling the pressure of trying to balance work, grad school, wedding planning, and social and family obligations. This week has been especially rough for...

Since it's basically Halloween (3 weeks from today!) and the stores are already getting out their holiday gear, I'm already in the Christmas spirit! Call me crazy but it's my favorite time of year...

See ya single life! What has been the hardest adjustment so far with your spouse (or future spouse)? A) Sharing your space at home B) Sharing finances C) Sharing holidays between your families For...

So I planned my parents wedding last year, it was a small back yard wedding with less than 50 people there. I am planning on getting married in 2020 around the spring or summer but we do not have a...

Hello everyone! I’m getting married July 20, 2019 and am scouring the internet to see if getting a TA is worth it? Should I pay or go with a free service? any recommendations? Your feedback is much...

I’m BAM and I can’t believe it! It’s surreal writing a BAM because I always read others on here and I imagined what mine would be like! I got married Friday July 13th and it was absolutely the best...

We all have songs that we want to dance to during the reception, but are there any tunes you cannot, will not stand being played on your special day? Maybe you’ve heard it played at every single...

If you did or are doing a mermaid style dress can I see pictures. I’ll love to see it on different body types. I know they have pictures on Pinterest but it’s fun to see people not posed perfectly!!

Someone told me that I should write thank you notes to people who came to the wedding but who did not bring a gift or a card. I think that seems a bit weird and like we are fishing for a gift....

Eye Lash Extensions (the real ones) or getting a facial? I can’t do both. i just bought $24 mascara today and my under eyes are black already. Maybe I did something wrong lol

Planning for 716 days, today is so surreal. We get married today!!! FH was chatting with me yesterday & I told his about being nervous walking down the aisle in front of so many people. His...

How many hours did or do you plan to hire your videographer for? Im on a budget but dont want to miss any big moments. Is 6 hrs enough?? Do I really need 10 hours?? My ceremony And reception are in...

For those of you that didn’t use a mic during your ceremony, did people complain they couldn’t hear anything? my fiancée is a very private person, and so when I told him I had my heart set on writing...

I already ordered my flowers but can add more. I didn’t even think about this but are you suppoed to get a boutineer for the father of the bride and coursages for the mother’s of the bride and groom?!...

Is anyone else not having their bridesmaids carry flowers? Everytime I tell someone I'm not having any flowers they look at me like I have four heads. My maids are carrying their favorite love story...