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Just wondering because he's been itching to do so, but I feel it's financially irresponsible to combine things legally until after you're married. What did you do? If your opinion differs from mine,...

Hey there! I'm wondering how much people generally spend on a cake? We're deciding between a cake or donuts. Any advice is appreciated!

How many days off before the wedding should I take? I'm planning the day before but should I take more than that?

I have been comparing venue prices over the last week, and am having trouble deciding what is good and what isn't. I have seen that it all depends on what is included, which I totally agree with! But...

Have a wedding banquet in Alhambra. Does anyone know of an inexpensive baker (under $3/serving) within 10 miles? I just need a plain sheet cake to feed 60. I don't care about how it looks, just...

We have a very strict budget of $4,000 for catering for around 175 people. But I am finding this to be basically impossible. We had found one caterer willing to work with us, but then got a...

What's the most efficient way to obtain all of the mailing addresses I'll need from my guests? My save the dates are almost due and I'm in the fetal position crying. Lol thx!

I had a second hair trial today and I feel so frustrated. I would show her photos of what I wanted and they came out "close", but never perfect and never looked exceptionally great. I didn't think it...

Our big day is just in a few days and we are STUCK with the first dance! We love Tennessee Whiskey by Chris Stapleton! We just don't know if it's appropriate for our first dance. I love "perfect" by...

What games are you playing/did you play at your bridal shower, that are not "team games", or in other words have just one winner at the end, who you can give a prize to? Long story short, my MOH...

My FH and I are planning on going to California for our honeymoon.. Any suggestions on what to do while were there?

Are you wearing shapewear or lingerie under your wedding dress? Or nothing? I have a strapless dress and the one bodice I tried on made me look bigger and somewhat shapeless under the dress. What did...

Anyone using battery or LED candles versus real candles? I love real ones but understand fire hazards and wouldn't want anything to happen even if we are careful. Anyone doing battery operated ones?...

Hello All - I have a beautiful beaded cathedral veil and it just came in and I have been trying it on at home - I am very worried it will fall out when I walk down the aisle. My hair will be down (I...

What are you wearing the morning of your wedding before you put on your dress?

Anyone else having a very difficult time finding a reasonable DJ? I'm a music teacher, and I DJ all of the events at my school. While I have never been an emcee for a wedding and I understand how...