Discussions I've participated in

I’m having a dilemma and I don’t know what to do except to just cry.. As everyone knows, usually the groom lets the bride and her mom, girls and mother in law plan while the groom doesn’t care and...

What do you do if your friends are married and are both in the wedding party and they have a toddler who is also the flower girl in the wedding? Basically, all 3 of them are in the wedding. The child...

I got engaged nov 2021 and when I announced it just automatically assumed I would have a bridal party, have it in my home town and all the classic wedding “things”. Our original planned date was for...

My MOH is a family member who I used to be very close to. Recently she went through a lot mentally and has changed drastically. When I asked her to be my MOH she loved my fiance and she seemed so...

Since we got engaged we have had a falling out with my fiancée parents. I don’t want them at our wedding but that will also cause a family rift with other family members I don’t know what to do I’m at...

I can honestly say I reached my first awkward moment of wedding planning, and I've learned through numerous threads that the WW community tries to tell it as it is! So here we go: My fiancé and I have...

Our bar situation is complicated, which is why I just want to say screw it and have an open bar. The venue has a bar, but doesn't provide a bartender. Our bartender that we hired doesn't have the...

So our original budget was 15k. That’s not including my venue which my mom covered. 15k is strictly what me and FH agreed to. Well we know now we will mosg likely go over. Has this happened to anyone...

My church ceremony is scheduled to start at 3:00 pm. The reception venue is about 20-30 minutes from my church. We will be having a cocktail hour before the dinner. I expect everything to be wrapped...

Our venue does not allow anything to be thrown- rice, pedals, etc. . Which means I have a flower girl who can’t throw flowers. She’s nearly two, so I don’t think anyone is actually going to notice or...

Our venue offers to serve our vendors for $36 a vendor... do I offer to provide food or ask for take it out of their fee? Have y’all fed your vendors.

There were some stuff that I wasn't aware of so it got me wondering about tips. Aside from tipping the limo is there anyone else we are supposed to tip ? I know we are suppose to feed the dj,...

I am planning on feeding my vendors who will be working all day (DOC and DJ), however due to the size of our wedding, we decided that 4.5 hours of photography is more than enough for us. We don’t have...

How has or will planning your own wedding, change the way your view weddings you attend from now on? For me, I will totally appreciate everything more! I had no idea how crazy wedding planning can be...

I been looking at 15% tip for vendors but its getting crazy with my budget. How you handle or plan to handle tips? Thanks

Here's my dilemma. The venue where we are having our wedding is in the downtown area. As such, there is no parking lot that the venue owns. There is a parking lot across the street that the city owns,...

FH and I just got a Facebook invite for a Jack and Jill party for one of his co-workers. I realized it's basically a fund raiser for their wedding and its $55 per "ticket" to attend. We are not...

Has this ever happened to anyone? I went to a bridal salon in the Boston area yesterday morning all dolled up and anxious to try and replace my lost wedding dress. I was early for my appointment, had...

FH and I are debating going for our honeymoon immediately after the wedding (married Sat, leave Mon) or wait until the next calendar year. My point is that I only have a set amount of vacation for the...