Skip to main content
Amber
Amber

We are a couple born and raised in Washington state! We are very active in our local hardcore punk scene with my fiancé being in a couple local bands. I’m... View More

We are a couple born and raised in Washington state! We are very active in our local hardcore punk scene with my fiancé being in a couple local bands. I’m a retired chef and currently a stay-at-home mom to our one year old son.

Happily married 🎉

May 18, 2025

339days 15hrs
Brittney
Vibe
Brittney, on November 28, 2023 at 1:03 PM

What is the vibe you are looking for? How/what do you want your wedding to "feel" like?

Skylar, Feb 14, 2024 57 2
Ixia
Where can i get bridesmaids goodies
Ixia, on January 24, 2024 at 1:28 AM

Where can I get bridesmaids goodies I only have 4 well 1 bridesmaid of honor and 3 bridesmaids I looked in Amazon but majority are set of 6 or more

Hailey, Jan 25, 2024 8
Daniella
Best bridesmaid dress websites?
Daniella, on January 16, 2024 at 10:13 PM

Hi i’m having major trouble finding legit websites besides Azazie, Birdy grey, & david’s bridal. my color theme for my bridesmaids is satin sage green, but can be any style to flatter their...

Skylar, Jan 23, 2024 12 4
Sue
Decor
Sue, on January 17, 2024 at 7:36 PM

Is plastic tacky for a wedding? Considering this option for silverware.

Amber, Jan 23, 2024 5
E
Decor regrets
Emily, on January 22, 2024 at 1:23 AM

Is anyone else struggling with some of the choices they made for their decor? Overall, our wedding day went well. Nothing bad happened, the vendors all delivered, and I think everyone had fun. We got...

Michelle, Jan 24, 2024 11
L
Fiancé’s doesnt have boundaries in planning
Lilly, on January 19, 2024 at 2:34 PM

I’ve always wanted to elope, and my partner and I came to the agreement to “essentially” elope with our parents and siblings present. When we decided to start moving in the direction of the idea, he...

Amber, Jan 22, 2024 5
V
Sister may not come to wedding
Vanessa, on January 15, 2024 at 4:57 PM

So my dad recently told me that my sister may not even come to the wedding. This really hurt me. She’s having her third baby a month before our wedding date and lives across the states. I understand...

Amber, Jan 22, 2024 15
Carrie
Honoring deceased family members
Carrie, on January 6, 2024 at 2:40 PM

My grandparents have all been gone for many years. My fiance still has both his grandmother's, but not grandfather's. I recently lost 2 aunts, one I was close with, the other not so much. My family is...

Amber, Jan 22, 2024 8
Sarah
Moissanite Rings... is it a secret or should i share?
Sarah, on November 10, 2019 at 7:54 PM

Hi all! What are your thoughts on diamond look-alike rings?! I specifically wanted a moissanite ring. They are beautiful and less than half the price of a diamond. However... most people assume it’s a...

M Hasan, Sep 5, 2024 25 1
L
Jewelry for mother of the bride
Lori, on January 18, 2024 at 8:22 PM

If I am wearing long sleeve should I not wear a bracelet? The bracelet is sentimental and I assumed that I would wear it. Now I am wondering. Also, is a necklace needed?

Skylar, Feb 7, 2024 6
Amber
Forest Fantasy Dresses
Amber, on January 22, 2024 at 10:10 PM

I’m looking for dresses that make this vibe in the under 1k range, but it seems impossible! What are your recommendations? And if you found a dress like this please feel free to post a pic of it and...

Cece, Jan 24, 2024 4 1,330
kjdfkl
Officiant wants to wear a kilt.
kjdfkl, on January 17, 2024 at 2:37 PM

The title says it all. Everyone else in our bridal party will be wearing suits. I'd prefer he was in a black suit. Should we let him wear what he feels most comfortable in?

Amber, Jan 22, 2024 8
Lisa
Who Witnessed The Proposal?
Lisa, on January 9, 2024 at 8:07 PM

Other than you and your partner, was anyone else present at the proposal? Did they know about it ahead of time?

Lisa, Feb 2, 2024 28
Pat
Engagement ring - choice or surprise?
Pat, on January 15, 2024 at 11:06 AM

Did you have a say in your engagement ring design? Did you discuss your vision ahead of time with your FH? Or.... was it a total surprise (and were you happy with it?)

Karina, Jan 24, 2024 31 1
Alicia
Rehearsal Dinner Distance??
Alicia, on January 20, 2024 at 4:40 PM

What do you guys think is a reasonable driving distance for rehearsal dinner…We have found a place we really love but it’s an hour drive from the wedding venue where we’re all likely staying…

Alicia, Jan 22, 2024 7 1
Sarah
Dad’s wife was his mistress and mom doesn’t want her at my wedding
Sarah, on January 16, 2024 at 8:36 PM

Hi everyone, I am getting married this year and my parents got divorced 7 years ago. 3 years ago dad married his mistress and now have a 1 hear old. My mom refuses to be at the wedding if dad’s wife...

Suzanne, Sep 17, 2024 106 1
H
Bridal shower for a planned “elopement”?
Heather, on January 22, 2024 at 12:30 PM

Hey all: I’m kind of troubleshooting certain difficulties in planning for my wedding, which is a super-budgeted destination affair due to my fiancé coming on a visa. We’ve been calling it an elopement...

Michelle, Jan 29, 2024 17
WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Explore how we embrace diversity

Groups

WeddingWire article topics