Discussions I've participated in

My venue wants my set up plans 60 days before my wedding. If I send my invites early with the rsvp deadline being 60 days early, is that too soon? I'm not sure how else to give them an accurate head...

Has anyone used the message guests feature? I'd like to send a reminder to everyone possible that my hotel blocks close soon but I don't want to click on it in case it automatically sends some...

Hi there! I am having a dry wedding due to costs but want to let some of us sneak in alcohol, could we get in trouble by our venue?

My first fitting was first thing in the morning and I was getting brunch after so I didn't bother to eat anything - I nearly passed out towards the end and had to sit down and have a cold compress on...

My dress has finally arrived!😅 what should I bring to my dress fitting? Accessories and shoes for the wedding? Veil? Is that too much?

Anyone got a back up plan? It's a lot of money to go to waste.

Is it okay to have just red/white wine and beer? I’m definitely on a budget for this part, but I love to drink and have fun. It also helps with me being nervous as I am a social drinker. But how many...

Hello, Should I go through a travel agent to plan out our honeymoon or we should figure things out and book it ourselves? How much cheaper would it be? (Probably less stressful, I bet) We are debating...

Hello all! I’m not sure if this is the proper group for this discussion. However, I wanted to know if you ladies and/or gents wear your engagement rings all the time. Recently, I was made to feel bad,...

Hi! So I’ve just said yes and we are officially on the hunt for a venue and vendors. We started off with a very low budget that as I researched realized was just not realistic. So we upped that number...

To cut costs I was thinking of having our wedding on the Thursday before Memorial Day next year. I’m thinking most of my guests will be willing to take off the Friday after so they would have a 4 day...

I thought I was ahead of the game but found out that our date is already taken on most of our desired venue list. So now, thinking of doing either a friday or sunday wedding. 40-50% of our guests will...

My fiancée and I had our hearts set on creating a weekend wedding experience for our guests, and though it might be better for our budget, I’m having a hard time justifying asking over 150 people to...

We found a venue we really like and it has pretty decent reviews on WeddingWire (4/5). However we’re discussing the contract with them and there are some red flags. We’re trying to overcome those red...

Hi there, I am a woman of color and I am having a hard time finding someone who can do my hair on-site for my 10/9/22 wedding in East Brunswick NJ. I am looking for an updo with extensions added for...