Discussions I've participated in

Hello, I know this will be the “Ask the bride about this than us” I am currently dating/ on and off with someone and seeming like things arent going too well, am I in the wrong to unblock someone they...

Hi! I need input/creative ideas for an open bar accounting situation. We are so fortunate that our reception venue will only charge us the open bar cost for adults over 21 that drink (we will not be...

At what age would you say that toddlers at a wedding should be given their own seat? If it helps, I'm talking about the reception specifically, which will be dining chairs at round tables (the...

Is it okay for the groom to know what his ring looks like. Or is he supposed to see that at the alter? I have no clue.

I’m not the bride but the sister in law. She is in a difficult situation and we could use an outside perspective. My father in law (brides father) had an affair and divorced my mother in law after 35...

Im 28, got engaged in September and I am STRESSED. Quick-ish back story: my parents had me at 17. I’ve never been close with my mom. Her and my stepdad HATE my dad and stepmom. My little brother also...

So I'm not quite sure what the etiquette on this would be. We're trying to keep the rehearsal lunch (rehearsal is in the morning) small since FH and I are paying for it ourselves. On the guest list,...

Hi.. everyone ! I just wonder.. after your big day, (or any bride who hire wedding photographer), Dose your photographer told you how long you will receive the photos ? My wedding photographers told...

I have a very close friend group I met in college 10 years ago. Two of my three college roommates are going to be invited to my Bachelorette party, but my third roommate and I ate not nearly as close...

I am changing my name and wondering about some logistics. I am getting married June 9. I am going on an international trip July 9-19, start a new job August 12, and then my honeymoon is September 30....

If we opt for a buffet-style dinner, should we include the dinner choices on our RSVP cards? While we recognize the necessity of RSVPs, is it essential for the venue to be informed about the specific...

Hello! My family recently sold our house in 2022, but I have always thought it would be a beautiful place for my wedding reception. I was curious if anyone here has ever asked a homeowner to use their...

My seamstress wanted to charge me $700 to hem my sleeves & skirt of my dress and do the bustle. I think it’s pricey and on too if it she wanted me to pay her full right at the moment. I...

My daughter is getting married and one of the things she would like is an ultimate potato station. Baked, mashed and fries of regular and sweet potatoes and all of the sides. I’m estimating 150...

Ok, tried to post this in a Facebook group and got 0 responses! Hoping for better luck here lol. So I have been seeing this adorable idea of a "generations of love" table where you put photos of...

Basically the title - Is it normal for a restaurant event space to have a venue fee and service charge (which is not gratuity)?

I just found out about a month ago that I no longer have a wedding photographer. I was very upset to find out that she went MIA with no explanation. Thank goodness I haven't paid her any money yet....

I have a difficult time with my in laws they are spending 6,000 on a cruise and expect us to come along with our own money while planning a wedding mind you they have not helped with any tasks...

My headcount is a little higher than expected. I’m paying for my entire wedding myself. I am thinking of having pizza be the only option for kids under 10…? Maybe pizza or chicken fingers IF it’s...