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September 21, 2019

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Ally, on November 20, 2020 at 4:22 PM

Anyone in NJ know if when changing your name on driver’s license you receive the license that day at the DMV? Pretty sure before the pandemic you did but who knows what rules they’ve now changed so if...

Michelle, Nov 20, 2020 6
How on earth do i even approach this? (not wanting to offend Fil.)
Marie, on November 19, 2020 at 7:05 AM

Oh boy. We went out to eat with the inlaws, whom I adore, and FH takes it upon himself to ask his dad to be our photographer. He said yes and is excited. 😕 I SO appreciate this...but no thanks. The...

Judith, Nov 20, 2020 23
He cheated... now what?
Kristen, on November 15, 2020 at 6:54 AM

I found out he cheated a couple times with a girl I actually met with him... I am so hurt and beyond disappointed. I have called off the wedding for now but how do I tell everyone? Do I blame covid?...

Hannah, Yesterday at 12:04 PM 40
Destination Wedding std vs Invitation or both?
Bride2Be, on November 13, 2020 at 2:27 PM

We are planning a destination wedding for Summer of 2022, and booking our venue this summer about a year out. What should we do in terms of sending a Save The Date or Invitation? I want to send...

Bride2Be, Nov 15, 2020 14
Minimalist Bride
Minimalist Bride, on November 12, 2020 at 10:37 PM

Do you recommend having a contract for all vendors? Specifically, a photographer?

Minimalist Bride, Nov 13, 2020 49
Minimalist Bride
Live life through two titles and not more?
Minimalist Bride, on November 13, 2020 at 5:57 AM

How much socializing is important to you and your (future) spouse? How much time do you two want to spend with each of your friends and family? I've noticed that some of my friends no longer make time...

Minimalist Bride, Nov 16, 2020 30
Thank you notes at the wedding.
Debbie, on November 12, 2020 at 7:58 AM

I recently saw an idea, but I need some feed back. I saw someone posted a pic of thank you notes they put at each place setting at the table. How would you feel about this idea? I'm thinking it's a...

Florida Marlins, Nov 17, 2020 33
Florist predicament
Kimberly, on November 11, 2020 at 7:52 AM

Hi everyone! We are moving forward with our wedding at a reduced capacity and we are very excited.I want to ask for your opinion. My florist charges per proof. Meaning, she charges the value of the...

Kimberly, Nov 13, 2020 13
fil is not onboard with our destination wedding
Katrina, on November 10, 2020 at 12:03 PM

We got engaged about a month ago and quickly decided to have a micro-wedding in Greece of October 2021. We socialized the idea with the family and then sent a google form out to help us nail down some...

Chelsea, Nov 20, 2020 25
Photography and Privacy Policy?
Amy, on November 8, 2020 at 11:37 AM

Hi all, I was just wondering if anyone else has thoroughly read through their photography contract. Almost every contract I've read talks about the photographer/ videographers right to use your photos...

Tiger Bride, Nov 9, 2020 15
Wrong information
Robert, on November 3, 2020 at 4:30 AM

I ask a simple question of wedding officiant and was given wrong information maybe they didn’t know or didn’t care want to be given information to contact immigration attorney for a US citizen that’s...

Hannah, Nov 3, 2020 15
How to Stagger Invites?
Amber, on November 2, 2020 at 3:16 PM

Our wedding is in October of next year. I got the preliminary invitations and save the dates today (I designed them myself using an art program and wanted to make sure they'd print correctly) and I...

Karen, Nov 3, 2020 21
Annoyed with the soon to be in laws
Chelsea, on November 2, 2020 at 11:43 AM

I have been engaged since June 2019 my big day is July 2021. I have been with my fiancés for 10 years. I wanted a smaller wedding and my fiancé wanted a big wedding. I put my foot down at 250. My...

MOB So Cal, Nov 3, 2020 10
Maid of horror
Colleen, on October 30, 2020 at 4:16 PM

Ok so I got engaged last summer and my friend INSISTED that she was going to be my MOH because I had been hers. I never asked her she just assumed the position which was fine as I would have asked her...

Casey, Nov 1, 2020 19
aita for expecting fh to attend family events more?
mrswinteriscoming, on October 23, 2020 at 12:57 AM

TL;DR - FH doesn't like attending family events with me/acts like it's a chore. I expect him to come to them with me as my partner. I come from a very tight-knit family. We are all up in each others'...

Marcia, Oct 29, 2020 30 1
Stds/ Parent problems
Chelsea, on October 22, 2020 at 9:20 AM

Hi! I got engaged June 2019. I wanted a small wedding in Vegas or Florida and my fiancé wanted a big wedding at home. So I said that's fine but not inviting people we don't know! We have been together...

Ana, Oct 23, 2020 10
Navigating the guest list...
Rachel, on October 21, 2020 at 12:03 PM

Hi, Everyone - My fiancé and I have ran into another roadblock (once again, instigated by my MIL). Like I've said in previous posts, we anticipate having between 40-50 people attend our wedding. Much...

Rachel, Oct 22, 2020 10
Minimalist Bride
Any advice before marriage?
Minimalist Bride, on October 21, 2020 at 3:11 AM

I've been told by several people to always keepan extra account seperate from spouse for emergencies. is there any other advice one should know before getting married as far as legalities or finances?...

Nemo, Oct 26, 2020 35
Wedding Showers
Shelly, on October 19, 2020 at 10:07 AM

Hey everyone! My FH and I will be getting married January of 2022. His SIL reached out to me saying she wanted to plan one of our showers/parties, which I'm over the moon about! My MOH also told me...

Judith, Oct 21, 2020 18
Disagreement on what type of wedding to have
Jill, on October 17, 2020 at 2:35 PM

I have a big question. I recently got engaged and, while we haven't done much in terms of planning or having an in depth conversation about planning, I immediately shared my idea of eloping to France...

Kayla, Oct 24, 2020 19