Hi! I’m Sophie and I’m not the typical bride. Our wedding theme is Victorian Gothic, I’ll be wearing a black wedding gown and we will be getting married... View More

Hi! I’m Sophie and I’m not the typical bride. Our wedding theme is Victorian Gothic, I’ll be wearing a black wedding gown and we will be getting married at the historic (and haunted) Hawthorne Hotel in Salem, Massachusetts. Frank and I have two Australian Shepherds, and while we aren’t house hunting and wedding planning, we love attending metal shows and traveling.

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December 18, 2020

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Artificial/silk Flowers
Sophie, on August 27, 2019 at 6:59 PM

Just met with the florist and the amount they want to charge is unreal. Looking for good websites that sell authentic looking artificial flowers at a reasonable rate. We are looking to use bacarra and...

Laree's, Aug 27, 2019 5 3
Family Frustration
Courtney, on March 19, 2019 at 12:38 PM

So my FH and I got engaged a little over a month ago. Our families are both really excited but the one thing they constantly bring up is that our wedding day will be on a Thursday. For us its...

Kelly, Aug 10, 2019 11
Family dressing based on wedding colors??
Tamara, on March 19, 2019 at 12:43 PM

Is this normal? My sisters, mom, and FSIL are all wanting to know wedding colors so that they can find their dresses. I've told them all that they can wear whatever color they want. It would never...

Carol, Mar 19, 2019 11
Sara, on March 19, 2019 at 12:45 PM

Hi all! So I recently came across the term "bridechilla" (I suppose a modern replacement attempt for "bridezilla"). A Bridechilla is bride who is so seemingly relaxed about everything that she...

Mary, Mar 19, 2019 12
Yay or nay??
Kali, on March 19, 2019 at 12:50 PM

Hey! I found some really cute shoes for the wedding, but I've never worn pointed toe before so I'm a little torn. I'd love to hear y'all opinions please!

Kali, Mar 20, 2019 28
Save the Date Proof
Jazmin, on March 19, 2019 at 1:15 PM

Hey everyone! I'd love an extra set of eyes on our save the date design! Anything spelled wrong or need to be rephrased? Do the pictures work nicely together? Overall opinion? Thanks so much in...

Danielle, Mar 19, 2019 15
Men’s attire I’m lost
Nichole, on March 19, 2019 at 1:18 PM

I love this look BUT I’m worried that it will look weird because my dress isnt casual and neither are my brides maids. Fiancé wants to wear jeans, boots, and a vest (I told him he needs a jacket for...

Jeanelle, Mar 21, 2019 29
What to say in Bridesmaid Proposal
Maggy, on March 19, 2019 at 1:35 PM

So I'm not very close to one of my sisters, in fact, she even tried to sabotage my fiance and I's relationship in the beginning. Now I can't leave her out of the bridal party cause I've forgiven her...

Danielle, Mar 19, 2019 5
Tiaras. Tacky or elegant?
Jessica, on March 19, 2019 at 1:37 PM

So I was considering wearing a tiara for my wedding, it's Victorian themed and my fiance proposed to me outside Buckingham palace.Even though it's Victorian themed, we have definitely been in a super...

Samantha, Jul 26, 2019 28
Choosing the band for my engagement ring
Monica, on March 19, 2019 at 1:37 PM

Hi everyone! I'm new here and I wanted to get opinions on my engagement ring; I'm in the process of designing it (my boyfriend is proposing this summer!). My stone is a 2.01 carat round. My basket...

Monica, Mar 24, 2019 5
Discussing wedding in front of people not invited
isabel1115, on March 19, 2019 at 1:42 PM

How have you guys navigated talking about the wedding in front of people who are (probably) not invited? In the beginning, I was so paranoid about talking about it in front of people until we had a...

isabel1115, Mar 19, 2019 13
Suit Color Reccomendations
Paige, on March 19, 2019 at 1:43 PM

My dress it moscato with ivory lace. I’m having difficulties trying to decide which shade for his suit to be. A light grey or dark like charcoal grey. I only have two bridesmaids and they’re wearing...

Paige, Apr 23, 2019 13
My dress came in and i can’t try it on.
Stephanie, on March 19, 2019 at 1:58 PM

I’m so bummed! I broke my ankle about a week and a half ago, but we thought it would be fine without surgery (it was borderline, so they let me choose). Turns out, with new X-rays yesterday, it is no...

Stephanie, Mar 20, 2019 11
Gratuity Help
Victoria, on March 18, 2019 at 5:23 PM

We are having a backyard wedding on a tight budget. And I was hoping for some guidance in regards to gratuity. The vendors we will be dealing with are: Catered food delivery (delivery and setup only)...

Angelena, Mar 19, 2019 6
Pirate & 60s Bride
Your Bridal Bouquet Ideas?
Pirate & 60s Bride, on March 18, 2019 at 5:27 PM

At home sick today. Would love to see pretty bridal bouquet pics—yours or an inspiration pic! And share the month and style/theme of your wedding.

Danielle, Mar 19, 2019 52
4 days away and I’m feeling sick 🤢
LadyByrd, on March 18, 2019 at 5:41 PM

My wedding is this Saturday and this morning I woke up with a horrible headache and coughing. I’m going to the after hours clinic in hopes they can prescribe me something that will knock this cold out...

Danielle, Mar 19, 2019 13
Momma Drama
Stephanie, on March 18, 2019 at 5:45 PM

My mom and i relationship isn't the greatest, it really hasn't been since she left my dad. (many years ago) but im really trying to work on them issues with her. Some days we have great days other not...

Stephanie, Mar 19, 2019 11
Stephanie, on March 18, 2019 at 5:52 PM

Does anyone else have a FMIL that is just being a monster to you? I know, if i dont have anything nice to say that I shouldnt say anything at all but this woman is just crazy!!! She and I have been...

Stephanie, Mar 19, 2019 9
Help me find my dream dress!
Jennifer, on March 18, 2019 at 6:20 PM

Morilee 3214 Help! I've fallen in love with this dress, but can't afford to buy the actual one by the designer at $1,000. I've found imitations on other websites like dressily me within my...

Danielle, Mar 19, 2019 9
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