Discussions I've participated in

Is anyone else out there taking out a loan to pay for your special day? We took out a 10k loan to cover half the costs. We are already going into this marriage with a bunch of college debt, so we...

Masterbation - Yupp... thats the topic of todays awkward question. Not only how do you feel about it in general, but does it come to play at all in your relationship? Do you get mad if OH...

I feel so stupid. When I contracted with a particular vendor, I was never given an invoice for the service--just a contract for the deposit. I had already approved a design that I really liked and it...

It's nearly midnight here and some of you may be able to tell, I am getting a bit testy. Lol. Probably sleep deprivation, but I'm addicted to the boards right now (wonder why that is). All in all, I...

One of my bridesmaids just called to ask if I had any ideas for a bachelorette night out theme in relation to what the girls should be wearing.. something along the lines of feather boas, 80's attire,...

We have the venue for 4 hours, including ceremony and receptionn. I am trying to decide if we should start the ceremony at 6 and end the night at 10:00? Or start at 5:00 with plans to end at 9 and if...

Hi everyone! I'm pretty new here so I feel kind of weird asking questions but does anyone have any money saving tips for venues, invitations, honeymoons, decorations, etc.? We are having a Christmas...

Is there a reason why brides wear the veil throughout the reception? I feel like it would get in the way? I am getting a catherdral veil, is it possible to even wear that all night long?

What time was your wedding/reception? Having a hard time selecting times for both. Please help!

I am currently in a hurried frenzy of trying to find a ceremony and reception venue that meets my budget! I am have 50-75 guests and I don't care the location! Illinois, Indiana, St Louis, ect. I do...

How far in advance are the bridal and bachelorette parties to the wedding. Trying to give my girls some insight on some dates and ideas that I would like to do.

We were thinking about having a small cake to cut, and then having something else to serve the guests. Has anyone done this? What did you use? We were thinking cupcakes, but we want to save as much...

1). I'm a budget bride and my idea to save on postage is setting up an email account with an auto response. Is that tacky? I work at my computer all day and after hours my emails come to my phone. So...

Hello Everyone! My fiance and I have a budget of about $4k, and thats really pushing it. When we first got engaged, i was convinced that weddings didnt cost as much as everyone said. Now that...

I want to know if I had a built in bra or corset made into my dress, would I still feel "supported"? I am pretty chesty, so I worry about not feeling like the girls are being held up. Should I buy...

Is anyone doing a name change or considering hyphenation? If so do you recommend any good websites for this?

It's been a few month since I've been on here. But today I finally got around to changing my name, and I'm feeling very weird about it. It's just weird that something as basic as the name I grew up...