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My best friend and I are both getting married, neither one of us know about engagement parties. Is that something people still do? If so, is it appropriate to throw your own? If so, if you do some kind of engagement party at a restaurant do you buy...

I know it's like normal/traditional to have a white dress, I don't really know much about weddings. How common, uncommon or weird would it be to have a colored dress instead of a white one? Opinions everyone?

So I always dreamed that my wedding would have MOH, bridesmaids, groomsmen and best man for my FH. I have tons of people I could invite to the wedding or be a part of it but my FH is sort of a loner, he doesn't really have any close close friends or...

So I'm torn and don't know what to do :-/ I have to choose between my twin sister & my best friend in being maid of honor & idk how to do it? My twin sister has already assumed that she's my MOH which I understand but at the same time I don't want...