Activity for Haycha

Hi again, I'm wondering about the pre-cana process for those who have already been through it. I am am active catholic, but my fiance doesn't believe in anything. I feel that a Catholic wedding is very important to me but he feels "hypocritical"...

I didn't realize what a headache it would be to plan this... I've thought about eloping on multiple ocassions... We both have huge families, but for budget reasons we're trying to keep our guest list at 50. How do you handle plus ones? I don't want...