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3016 days agoFrom all my fellow critical and conscious consumers: https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/gay-couple-suing-over-wedding-pamphlets-sparks-vistaprint-investigation_us_5a6107e9e4b01d91b2541391?ncid=tweetlnkushpmg00000054
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3148 days agoThis is pretty self indulgent, but a while ago I mentioned that FW will be wearing a bespoke suit and a bunch of people asked if they could see pictures, but it hadn't come in yet so I couldn't. It's in now! I know from FW's search that it's VERY...
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3153 days agoPretty simple. We're spending half our honeymoon in cancun, half in either tulum or playa del carmen but can't decide which one. We want to sit on a beach, drink cocktails, and hit up some cenotes and ruins. We're young and hip-ish and like exploring...
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3180 days agoFW and I's joint bachelorette party is this weekend, and we've been compiling a "girl gang" playlist. The rules are: has to be a song by a woman, and it can't talk about romance in it. Only songs by ladies talking about how much they love their lady...
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3188 days agoHair and makeup are stressing me out y'all. 1. We are getting married in Brooklyn but planning from Austin TX, and we have no more trips to NY before the wedding. This means that I will not be able to have a trial. Like whoever I pick, I just gotta...
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3191 days agoAnyone watching this game? Megan Rapinoe makes my heart beat fast.
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3192 days agoI was talking to FW about cake and was stoked that I found a place with a reasonable NYC price (450) and that cheap ass motherfucker turned to me and said "so....do we even need dessert?" I almost exploded trying not to laugh in her face while also...
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3212 days agoToday I met with our vendor and our planner. My mom was at the vendor meeting and was adamantly into round tables. My planner is really into the idea of long tables. I think aesthetically I'm leaning long, but everyone always makes the point about...
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3223 days agoTwo years ago today I cried in my partner's arms because finally marriage was an option for us. We're young (29 & 30) so we only had a few years without equality, and I still get choked up thinking about the couples who had been together for decades,...
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3228 days agoThis bad ass beauty finally came in after 6 months of ogling the one picture of me in it I had. I edging love this dress. I know it's not totally traditional, but neither am I. It also looks bangin with my leather jacket. Question I have for y'all -...
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3234 days agoI grew up on Long Island and am getting married in Brooklyn. However, I currently live in Austin TX. We've been planning a DIY wedding from afar (our venue is just the cold hard space - we have to bring everything else in ourselves) and though it's...
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3239 days agoSo our planner threw out a suggestion that we do our cocktail hour before our ceremony. (All stages of our wedding are going to be in the same place) I think mostly because we're getting married on a Friday and it's hard to ever plan for NYC traffic....
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3245 days agoIt's pride month! (Even though there was no official WH announcement for the first time in 8 years...) FW and I are going to our first pride event of the year tonight and I'm pumped to bust out the glitter and hot pants. Queer fam - do you have any...
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3248 days agoLadies, gents, and non-binary friends, I have pretty heinous psoriasis. It's consistently present on my hands (like maybe the last time i saw my hands 100% psoriasis free was .. over a year ago?), when it's really bad i get it around my eyes - under...
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3250 days agoSo, we're trying to nail down a DJ and already knew we needed to do a deeper dig and get past your usual wedding DJs. Our style is way more indie pop/indie rock/obscure, but also know that not everyone else at our wedding is into the same music as...
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3267 days agoHey new friends! So when we first started thinking honeymoon I had dreams of Belize and over water huts. Then found out that there are some pretty scary homophobic laws on the books there. Since it'll be our honeymoon, I wanna actually be able to...