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PrettyWitty&Gay

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October 13, 2017

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Difficult bridesmaids
Angela, on July 25, 2018 at 10:25 AM

Hey all! I am coming here for some serious help. I am 24 days away from my wedding and am having a brides worst nightmare with my bridal party. This is a long post but please help! Lets start art from...

Angela, Jul 28, 2018 37
Kate
Trans Non-binary and the Gendered Language of Weddings
Kate, on June 6, 2018 at 2:14 PM

Hi all, I'm a ciswoman, and my partner is trans non-binary. So far so good in planning a beautifully queer wedding. We're always sure to ask potential vendors of their past history in working with...

Stephanie, May 21, 2024 36 3
AbouttobeaBANKS
Has anyone seen this before?? I'm in love
AbouttobeaBANKS, on June 6, 2018 at 4:44 PM

Hey everyone! I found this idea of using tree stumps as seats and I fell in love. I have a landscaping company across the street from my house so I'm going to inquire to see if they will give me some...

Mrscolón, Jun 11, 2018 55
Xandria
Favorite Trend?
Xandria, on May 31, 2018 at 2:54 PM

Weddings will always have traditions and trends! I'm curious what everyone's favorite trend is? Whats that thing that's come around lately that makes you think o jeez, I'm so glad someone else thought...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Jun 1, 2018 74
Bridget
What are you sick of seeing?
Bridget, on May 31, 2018 at 9:36 AM

I've seen this thread on here a while back and I loved it, so Im bringing it back. What are some of the things your all sick of seeing at weddings. For me its the burlap, I know a lot of people are...

Mady, Jun 8, 2018 139
Shalonda
Rsvp
Shalonda, on May 18, 2018 at 8:51 PM

I just sent out invitations and people are already asking about plus ones. Sorry rsvp states we have reserved this number of seats in your honor. Well my mom is like well that’s not right you have to...

SoKatiiee, May 23, 2018 47
ISaidHallYes
Ceremony Vent/help
ISaidHallYes, on May 7, 2018 at 2:39 PM

I know our wedding is still a good bit off but I really wanted to hammer down the ceremony script and have it bound in a book. We are not religious but appreciate all of the religions in the world...

ISaidHallYes, May 8, 2018 34
Matty
Any other Nb/gnc/trans people on here?
Matty, on April 18, 2018 at 1:13 PM

How are you handling wedding planning with all its gendered expectations?

Brianna, Jun 22, 2018 35
kara
Cancun
kara, on April 9, 2018 at 10:00 AM

Anyone been or planning to go to Cancun for their honeymoon? We are going the first week in May and trying to think of what to do. I do not want to completely stay on the resort.

PrettyWitty&Gay, Apr 9, 2018 5
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moh Problems
Anne, on April 8, 2018 at 5:58 PM

Hello all, looking for thoughtful advice, but also accepting expressions of support and solidarity. My MOH is my oldest friend of 14+ years. In that time we've had our ups and downs, but she's largely...

Kim, Apr 9, 2018 14
Pegs
What kinds of stamps did you use for your Stds/invitations?
Pegs, on March 29, 2018 at 10:46 AM

I had the hardest time selecting stamps, of all things, for my invitations and Save the Dates. I love stationary and wanted my stamps to be cohesive with my designs and overall look/feel. I'm weird...

Bailey, Mar 29, 2018 43
Kaleema
Half-dressed wedding guests
Kaleema, on March 28, 2018 at 11:50 AM

I went to a colleagues wedding and there was so much cleavage and skirts "up to there" that I was embarrassed even seeing it at such a momentous occasion. Now I am planning my wedding and trying to...

Mrsbdg, Apr 14, 2018 81
PrettyWitty&Gay
Bespoke Suit Brides
PrettyWitty&Gay, on September 8, 2017 at 5:13 PM

This is pretty self indulgent, but a while ago I mentioned that FW will be wearing a bespoke suit and a bunch of people asked if they could see pictures, but it hadn't come in yet so I couldn't. It's...

Catriona, Apr 12, 2019 78
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Racial issues with Pastor
Krista, on March 23, 2018 at 2:29 PM

Sooooo my father in law is very old school country boy from a very white town. This post isn’t about changing him, just some advice. When we got engaged I asked my friend to marry us. He’s black. Race...

Michelle, Apr 2, 2018 49
Stephanie
To Post or Not to Post?
Stephanie, on February 14, 2018 at 1:35 AM

I am usually very active on social media, but since getting engaged a few months ago I have been much less active. I realized today it might partially be because I am scared that people will be hurt...

FutureMrsW, Feb 21, 2018 51
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To carnival or not?
Kendra, on January 23, 2018 at 11:02 PM

Every year FH and I go to a music festival called carnival of chaos. Its a 3 night heavy metal and edm music fest and always tons of fun! We normally go with a group of 14 people, a lot of whom are in...

Kendra, Jan 24, 2018 8
6-22-19 Mrs.williams
Groomsmen attire
6-22-19 Mrs.williams, on January 23, 2018 at 12:53 PM

Our wedding is very casual on the beach. All my girls will be in Malibu blue bridesmaid dresses and the men will be in khaki pants and a button up shirt.My dilemma is: should the guys wear malibu blue...

6-22-19 Mrs.williams, Jan 24, 2018 43
Kelly
Reasonably Priced Hair and Makeup-- Long Island, ny
Kelly, on January 15, 2018 at 12:44 PM

Hello! My wedding will be near bay shore new York and I am currently looking for a reasonably priced hair and makeup artist for the day of for me and my girls. Any suggestions would be wonderful! ...

Vanessasaurus, Feb 18, 2018 10
PrettyWitty&Gay
Vistaprint heads up
PrettyWitty&Gay, on January 18, 2018 at 4:52 PM

From all my fellow critical and conscious consumers:...

jnsangel4life, Jan 31, 2018 47
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