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So I'm trying to think of a fun way to ask my girls to be bridesmaids! I've looked on Pinterest, but I would like to hear some real people responses! Did yall do anything fun (notes, personalized cups, frames, etc)?...or did yall just straight up ask...

It is a beautiful location and with our wedding in October we are very limited for options. They are also willing to hold our October 1st date and the owners are acquaintances. It would help us to have both ceremony and reception at one location. We...

Is it too much?

I've been receiving mixed feedback. Some women have theirs on separate days and others think it's better to have both on the same day. What are you doing and why? Also, a few other questions instead of posting 4 different threads. What are you using...